Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

my mate has found out her bf won't marry her cos his family won't agree to him marrying her and he said he wont go against his family, now she blames him for not wanting her, so she wants him to feel bad, real bad. so she wants to lie and tell him she got pregnant and got an abortion, what shud i do i've told her not to cos it's not right, but she won't listen, help :-(

2007-03-17 00:21:28 · 15 answers · asked by sweetchick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 00:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anupama P 1 in Friends

i couldnt find a boyfriend. i know i am under peer pressure to find one, one that can show me concern, one to keep me occupied, one to make me feel loved. But i just feel that i am not outstanding enough to gain the attention of the opposite sex. how can i find myself a boyfriend?

2007-03-17 00:21:07 · 7 answers · asked by Valerie 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife recently found out about an old relationship which i did not tell her about, and a child out of wedlock.Now she says she feels like i lied to her indirectly and that i was not honest with her from the start, but this all happened before i met my wife.She has now asked to be away from me for a while, she says to vent her anger and to be with her family and friends for a while to be herself again..she is far away and she doesnt even sms or call me, although when i sent her to her family home she did text me to say she was sorry and that she needs time. She still calls me sweetheart and still ends her texts with LOVE YOU before signing off..that was yesterday..now she is quiet. What can i do to win her back? am i wrong? how do i convince her that im so sorry for not being completely honest and i wont let it happen again? Need help!!! words dont work on her now it seems..

2007-03-17 00:18:58 · 18 answers · asked by Mikey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 7 acre track and an extra room at my house. He is welcome to stay anytime, so how can I get him to extend the invitation? He likes picking up chicks anyway. : )

2007-03-17 00:18:50 · 3 answers · asked by jennainhiding 4 in Singles & Dating

I live on my own. I am getting on in years. get lonely,spend hours on here to releive boredom.Fed up with most of telly. Can't get out a lot. Do drive but not at night.

2007-03-17 00:18:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 00:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by tilak_92584 1 in Singles & Dating

he keeps asking me out and messaging me then cancels last minute and always seems to be busy...b4 he asked me out he liked me alot........whats up with him if he doesnt like me WHY ASK ME OUT!!!! hes done it twice now should i give him another chance or the flick?

2007-03-17 00:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf told me that he rather talk online 2day instead of me phoning him why would he say that

2007-03-17 00:15:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started going out with her almost by accident. We're lab partners in a biology class that I can't afford to drop, and she first called me "baby" about three weeks after she met me. Valentine's was our first official date, and it's been a little over a month since. She couldn't be bothered to kiss me on our one month anniversary, or to call me when she said she would. I'm also beginning to have doubts about some things she says about her career and her outside life.

On the one hand, I'm 20 and don't want to lose her, as she is my first GF. On the the other hand, she's cold enough and distant enough that I'm having doubts. Any insights?

2007-03-17 00:15:32 · 13 answers · asked by good huggle bear 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 00:15:21 · 1 answers · asked by oliviamcginnis 1 in Family

Hi...
I'm 13 and I really like this girl (who's the same age), and my parents know her parents really well. I think that she likes me back, but the only problem is that i don't see her very often. I only see her when my parents invite her and her family round, because she lives quite far away from me - about 2 hrs away. Also, she might move somewhere abroad in 1 or 3 yrs. Mine and her family are, I think, going on like a trip to somewhere in Europe this summer, but how could I know that she likes me or not? Is it right for me to tell her that I like her even though she might not like me? And, could our relationship stay and work out even if she moves abroad in the future?

Thanks...

2007-03-17 00:09:41 · 4 answers · asked by T 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm korean. well actually half korean, and a quarter Italian/Irish. I was wondering why asians (especially asian men) for the most part, always try to get with a white chick? what's up with that? I find asian girls just as hot! or even hotter in my opinion. I really think its sad that asian men think this way. asian chicks are hot!

2007-03-17 00:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. so my grandpa is old. and my mom wants him to move in with us. so next week hes moving in. he needs A LOT of care and im really NOT close to him at all. even when he visits its hard to take care of him. im a teenager and i have alot of friends that mean alot to me and i dont want to loose them by having my time taken up by him moving in. i cant tell my mom because she will FLIP out on me and tell me im being selfish. i feel bad but im really not ready to baby sit a 86 year old guy i dont know. what should i do!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-03-17 00:07:57 · 25 answers · asked by julia 2 in Family

I knew my marriage won't be happy as I wished when I was little. I loved him and willing to give him anything and always trust his words until I got pregnant, I found out he cheated on me. I married him bcus I didn't want my family to worry for me. I hope we could start everything over. He got $25,000 and told me I got 5000 in my pocket , he gave me 3000 and told me not to go over 5000."I don't want to touch my 25000, I'll save it". 3000 was really tight to plan my wedding. My mother and sis help me out and I felt so so bad. I promised myself I pay them back. After our wedding I asked him to pay my mother 1000 and my sis 500 he didn;t believe me " I gave you 3000 , that should be enough" I even spent my own money(1000) which given from my sisters to pay for the photographer and camcorder man. Now he;s not treating me as his wife. Poor my 6 mon old daughter, I don't care about myself, I just want the best for my baby.

2007-03-17 00:06:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One year before we got enggaged & we are going to marry soon. I don't how can I tell her that she so important to me Please help me what shall i gift her.

2007-03-17 00:05:33 · 3 answers · asked by Sameer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know its a strange question but my bf wont tell me cause he thinks im joking. maybe i can reliy on someone in here!!

2007-03-17 00:05:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! I am Sweeya. I am 14 years old, and I live in London. I would like to make friends with someone because I am lonely, and haven't got many friends at school or in my neighborhood.
If you want to contact me, this is my e-mail id: sweeyamanasa@yahoo.co.uk. This is just to make friends
Not to cheat anyone!!!

I only accept girls!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-17 00:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-17 00:03:06 · 1 answers · asked by Vixen 1 in Weddings

i think she is involved with someone but after my hard strugle i could not find that who he is? this situation makes me crazy.
what should i do?

2007-03-17 00:01:57 · 4 answers · asked by Green Valley 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and he really likes me alot and i do too. should i breakup with him because he pokes another girl and pokes her on the hip should i please help me

2007-03-17 00:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The most recent time for me was a lady at a local cafe. She was owner/manager along with her family. I first spoke to her on the phone when I enquired about hours. She had a very sweet voice and was very nice. I came into the cafe and was blown away by her beauty. Gourgeous, shiny, hair. Beautiful eyes. Great figure. And some of the most perfectly shaped breasts I ever saw. I am not usually a breast man, but hers I could not stop thinking about. Then I talked to her for several minutes and enjoyed the conversation very much. When I left I wanted to stay and talk some more and could not get her breasts out of my mind.
Has this ever happened to you?

2007-03-17 00:00:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating