I really like this girl... how do I know she likes me? And will our relationship work out?

Question

Hi...
I'm 13 and I really like this girl (who's the same age), and my parents know her parents really well. I think that she likes me back, but the only problem is that i don't see her very often. I only see her when my parents invite her and her family round, because she lives quite far away from me - about 2 hrs away. Also, she might move somewhere abroad in 1 or 3 yrs. Mine and her family are, I think, going on like a trip to somewhere in Europe this summer, but how could I know that she likes me or not? Is it right for me to tell her that I like her even though she might not like me? And, could our relationship stay and work out even if she moves abroad in the future?

Thanks...

Answer 1

Yes Yes!
The family trip is the perfect time to tell her you like her. Make sure you've got the right atmosphere cooked up, like when shes all giggly and happy.
I think things will work fine between you two. I mean even after shes gone you'll still be able to keep in touch and visit her and all.
Dont worry bout that now though, coz it still a year or three away.
Live for today!

Hope things work out! :)

Answer 2

Ask her out. That's how you'll know if she likes you. Just tell her. Don't freak her out though...

But if she's moving far away then maybe it's time to look for someone else. I've tried a long distance relationship and it just doesn't work. You'll worry if there are other guys looking at her, if there are other guys asking her out, what she says to them. Plus it's really hard to be with someone who you don't even see on a regular basis.

Answer 3

If your families are close she probably thinks of you more like a relative than a potential lover. That's bad. Very bad. Even worse than "friends".

Answer 4

just be confident of yourself..if u think she likes u back then its a good sign..u call her up or meet her up and chat and ask her abt her feelings..just be cool aite??