I'm 22, & soon to be engaged to the man I lost my virginity to almost 1 yr ago. He thinks our sex life is perfectly fine, I don't. I'm painfully shy when it comes to mentioning it, & when I try, I feel like he shuts me down. The 2 main problems - anything/anywhere I want to try, his attitude is either "been there done that", "it's not all it's cracked up to be," or "you've only been having sex for 9(ish) months, you don't want to try everything at once, or you're gonna get bored" but I'm already bored now... very bored... the sex just feels very routine - like it starts the same and ends the same... also, he can't ever seem to last long AT ALL & I've subtly mentioned going for "round 2" but have NEVER gotten it... I've only had an orgasm MAYBE 3 times or so... and I have NO IDEA how to tell him, because I do love him more than ANYTHING, without crushing his ego, that 1) I'm not satisfied in the bedroom, and 2) 15 mins. from foreplay to finish line doesn't quite do it... PLEASE HELP!!
2007-03-17
03:22:30
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