Ok..Recently i have been having the same dream,that me and my ex were back together,we brokin up a few yrs back,but she was my only true love,and i can't seem to find anyone as good as her,because when i do i always reflect on how my ex was,and cant make the reationship work,ne idea's?please
2007-03-17 03:24:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until you close your head and heart about the ex, you will never be able to move on with a new partner. Been there done that, still have the same problem occasionally.
Try to concentrate on what you like about the new partner instead of comparing her to your ex.
We are all different people, and if you found someone exactly like your ex would that be healthy? Maybe you would just be on pins and needles thinking it would end the same way also.
2007-03-17 03:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by shovelkicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not moved on yet and you are still very much so in love with her. Unless you think you have a chance with your ex again, you should really try to move on....comparing won't take you far in a relationship because every girl you meet will be different and special in their own way. And the fact is...you and your ex are broken up, so something must have gone wrong. You should learn to embrace people in their good ways instead of looking back on how your ex was...it's not fun to be compared to be an ex constantly. As for you too..if you are always comparing, you will never be happy...so just relax, move on..I'm sure you can find someone great that will love you. Goodluck!
2007-03-17 03:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dreaming about it because you are thinking about her so much. You have to stop comparing girls to your ex. Every girl you meet is an individual and has unique qualities of their own. You will never be able to move forward until you let go of the past. Live for today and let yesterday go. You will have a much happier life if you concentrate on now instead of the past.
2007-03-17 03:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seeing as we dont know the nature of your breakup its hard to give great advice. is there any way she would be interested in getting back otgether? or...is she now married or dating another guy? if she is no longer available then you simply need to move on. i know its hard but just start dating (nothing serious!) and get to know some more people. you cannot make her love you again. as for dreams? in the end it is JUST A DREAM and it isnt good to just dwell on your dreams, and forget to live.
2007-03-17 03:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because u cant seem to let go of the memories u had with her.she must be the one who broke it off and u havent gotten over it yet and every time u try to get with some one else u expect her to be like u ex.u want that person to treat u the way she treated u in a good way that is
2007-03-17 03:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by martina s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time for you to call up your ex.
When you start comparing past relationships to current ones, it never works.
You two must be meant for each other. Tell her how much she means to you and that no matter how hard you've tried to get over her shes the only one for you.
2007-03-17 03:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you buy a dictionary and/or return to school and learn elementary-level grammar and spelling. Perhaps your newfound skills will enable you to have enough confidence to get past your ex. Live in the now, man!
2007-03-17 03:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by zoldosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All it is that you miss that love you use to have.
2007-03-17 03:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by briana11us2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋