I want to notify someone about their spouse cheating anonymously to protect myself. I'd prefer to write a letter or email with this specific information.
2007-03-17 03:25:58 · 21 answers · asked by Scout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't know if i would believe it, but it would make me be suspicious and start trying to find out.
2007-03-17 03:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by ladybug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, are you the one having the affair with said person? If so then I would suggest you do the right thing. If you are not you still need to do the right thing. Feelings may be hurt but in the long run that person is going to have respect for the fact that you had the courage to inform them. Don't look at it as ruining a relationship but as giving that person the knowledge and letting them decide what they want to do about it. In the end it all eventually comes out in the wash anyways so why not deal with the issue now so that the healing process can begin instead of waiting and seeing what happens? Good Luck
2007-03-17 11:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, simply be able to write the note, giving as much detail as to dates, times, what the people were wearing, etc. The more detail you give, the more it will give credence to what you say. Yes, it could also help to identify you too, so keep that in mind.
Now, while I am fine with the cheater getting their just rewards, the only thing I would caution or suggest is this. See if you can find out a bit about the spouse you want to make aware of this. They may be a cause of the affair, may be having one of their own, etc. You dont want to give a spouse who is just as bad, a bat to club the other one with.
2007-03-17 11:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better be absolutely positive you have your facts straight first. Then when you notify them make sure you are careful it is anonymous, remember email can be traced. Also try to provide them with some believable evidence (pictures) to back up your claim. Otherwise they probably won't believe you. You could also send the information to their friend or a family member & leave it up to them to tell. I would definately want to be told if someone knew my partner was cheating, but I would question the information source.
2007-03-17 10:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tiga 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just try to get out of it, cause if its not you,your better off not knowing so you can't be blame for their problem. But if this really what you want, talk to the person that's cheating and tell him/her the idea of you knowing is going to ruin the relationship that you have for this person. ask that person to come clean to the spouse or else you will open your mouth......good luck.........
2007-03-17 12:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id like to find out since i was told my husband is cheating but i would want pictures to prove it or i wouldn't believe it theres one question I'm wanting to know if i live in a diffrent state than you how can you get the knowledge to find that out i do need prove so i know this itsn't false information
2007-03-17 10:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would, and you should tell. My wife cheated on me. I was tipped off by people she thought was her friends. I'm so glad they told me. You know in your heart that telling would be the right thing to do. Good luck and God bless
2007-03-17 10:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter, if you get pics or proof send that with the letter.
2007-03-17 11:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if it is from an anonymous person. If it is someone you care about, confront them about the situation.
2007-03-17 10:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by princess froggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should write a letter and give them proof, otherwise they have no reason to believe you.
2007-03-17 12:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hater in tha House!
2007-03-17 11:13:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋