why do people like having sex for fun when they konw that they can get pregnant. Above what is so aweet and romantic in sex what is so passionable aren't there other ways so that you can make love french kissing and stuff like that ????
2007-03-17 03:23:29 · 24 answers · asked by marylovefaires 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had alot of sex & never got pregnant
2007-03-17 03:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by woody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, french kissing does NOT have the same feelings that sex does. Sex is amazing with the right person and responsiblity. Notice that last word, responsibility. You shouldn't have to ask why a person should, or should not have sex as it is a natural form of affection shared by two people. But it should be done responsibly. You know, there is somethings known as birth control, don't you. It is the responsibility of both people to ensure that there will be no transmission of STD's, or the minimization of the chances of pregnancy by using condoms or some other form of contraception like birth control pills, patches, rings or whatever else prevents the sperm from meeting the egg, you know what I'm saying? The BIG problem with society is that NO ONE talks about these things because they imply something that people percieve to be taboo or dirty. I think it is a waste of time to teach young people sex ed. if they're not going to include the use of birth control to or safe sex practices because some religeous conservative wants to "pretend" her daughter will "never" have sex. Believe me, if you teach pre-teens about STD's and how NOT to get them by using contraceptives then it is less likely they will get them, or get pregnant, despite a desire to have sex or not.
Yeah, that might have been off topic, but the BOTTOM LINE is you don't have to be affriad of sex for fear of pregnancy, becuase there are ways to have "safe" sex. If birth control is against your religion, and you don't want to get pregnant, then don't have sex. But also, do not expect a man who doesn't share your views to settle for "french kissing" above sex. Because if you do, your kidding yourself about what kind of society you live in.
2007-03-17 03:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are ways to have sex and be safe. Yes, there are many other ways to show your love without having sex, but when you are in a serious relationship you just know when you are ready to take that step. It is sweet and romantic and the ultimate way to show your love, but you have to wait until you are ready and with the right person.
2007-03-17 03:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual intimacy and desire are as natural and necessary as eating food.
Abstinence, until one is ready to make a commitment with someone else, is very difficult. But it is a good thing if you have the willpower...a.k.a. "Virgin".
"French kissing and stuff like that" is the prelude to sexual activity.
Guys just want sex...and they have many ways to accomplish their objective. A friendship relationship is not on their agenda.
Most young girls do the sexual activity with the desire to have and maintain a relationship...unfortunately, they are soon dumped by the guy until he finds another victim.
There is no easy answer to your question. But I believe that it would be best for a girl to ask a guy: "What do you want from me"?
If the guy just uses your body as a "Sexual Tool"....dump him !
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I hate to mention this, but for those girls that believe that oral sex is safe. Wise up. Read the studies written in the Medical Journals. I won't go into details...you find out for yourself. Many complications (not STD's) occur later in life.
2007-03-17 03:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by bob P11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex does not have to lead to pregnacy unless you want the child ---- it is MUCH more than holding hands and kissing --- it can bring two people much closer together and allow them to experience a closeness that can not be achieved any other way
if you dont know what sex is all about you have not experienced love making with someone you love and you are not emotionally mature enough to appreciate the act
2007-03-17 03:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex for fun can not only lead to pregnancy it can also lead to the spread of disease and even death so figure u have sex for fun u sleep with 1 person who has been with 2 people they have been with 2 people so actually ur sleeping with more than one person and ur trusting that they all had safe sex number 2 kissing and stuff like that are foreplay which lead to sex
2007-03-17 03:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is a lot more fun & satisfying than making out.
Birth control has been around for over 40 yrs.
2007-03-17 03:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl just like the feeling of it and dont want any strings attached in the relationship. Their called whores. i really dont understand why they do that either. I would want to wait to have sex and that with my husband on our wedding night. something like sex and losing ur virginity is very special. But some ppl just dont care
2007-03-17 03:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by candysdancingm_n_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, people use birth control.
Making love with someone u love is something so wonderful u can't describe it with words, it's so much more than just sex.
2007-03-17 03:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by carolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we get in a car if we know that we might crash?
There are ways of avoiding pregnancy that almost always
work. Thy are sufficiently effective that people think that
the pleasure derived from sex is worth it.
2007-03-17 03:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is a lot more than sex.
2007-03-17 03:26:55 · answer #11 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋