Explain the circumstances that you either forgave the person or would forgive the person....or explain why you would not forgive an unfaithful partner....
2007-03-17 03:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by Love always, Kortnei 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forgive - yes. Give him a chance to betray me again? No.
2007-03-17 03:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Tavita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could ever forgive my partner if he cheated on me...just the thought of being intimate with a guy that was just intimate with another girl just would hurt too much, and everytime I would kiss him or hug him I would wonder if he's feeling the same about me.....not fun!
2007-03-17 03:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my marriage I found out that my husband was cheating on me with another woman. I fogave him because at the time I was 19, pregnant and scared to be on my own. He cried and apologized. He started treating me really well. I thought that we had moved past the infidelity. Of course once he knew all of this he continued to be unfaithful. I eventually turned 20, had the baby and got the courage to kick his *** to the curb.
2007-03-17 03:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience if you forgive them you can never forget & they often do it again! Once the trust has been broken it is hard to trust again, little things raise your suspicion & the relationship becomes too much work. If they cheated on you then they obviously did not respect & love you the way they should, there are no excuses.
2007-03-17 03:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tiga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an exboyfriend that cheated on me with my best friend,and i have forgiven them.Buttt.....it took me 2 yrs to forgive them both. But now if my current boyfriend was to hurt me i dont think i would be to quick to forgive.....Cuz if you cheat once then your sure to do it again and i dont think i want to go through that kind of pain again.
2007-03-17 03:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by bermy_badgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms thank you to get thorough those sort of issues is talking. It sounds uninteresting answer even in spite of the shown fact that it is fact. you may communicate with him and insist undemanding solutions: is the region fixable or no longer, does he nevertheless prefer to proceed the marriage and so on. You should nicely known that, even in spite of the shown fact which you had an affair. you have invested to the marriage for one million.5 years. He can not be mad continuously, it quite isn't honest. Forgiveness or divorce.
2016-10-02 06:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by gayston 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged for a year when I started wondering about my fiance and his co-worker. He was a bouncer at a friend's bar and she was a cocktail waitress. When I would go in on night's he was working (at my fiance's request), it was impossible to ignore the flirting between the two. I tried to not let it get to me so I just shrugged it off and told myself we are engaged to be married. So, this happened for about 2 months when we got into a discussion after making love about people in our lives. He asked me if I could be with anyone besides him, who would it be? I flat out said no one but him but I turned the question on him and he actually told me the cocktail waitress. So I was devasted, turned over and went to sleep. To make matters worse, on the last night she was working, he didn't get home from the bar untill 5:30AM when he normally comes in at 2:30AM. I kept questioning him about why he was late and story kept changing from oh i called (he didn't), we were cleaning up, we had a few drinks, he and the cocktail waitress were talking in our car. I was so upset i went to go talk with his mother. I didn't tell her I thought he had cheated but she out of blue said "Tell me about (cocktail waitress's name) that Rob has been talking so much about". To say the least, I finally wrestled it out of him after talking with his mother that he had cheated. I did not forgive him and broke the engagement. How could he come back from fooling around with her and cuddle me that morning he came in at 5:30AM. Not only that but to lie about it, had he been more honest, I might have considered forgiving him. Instead he lied to me, assuming I would never figure it out. The insult on my intelligence was enough to call it quits.
2007-03-17 03:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rebekah B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!!!!! Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!!!!
2007-03-17 03:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Bellows 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not if i caught them
2007-03-17 03:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋