should i breakup with him???

Question

i have a boyfriend and he really likes me alot and i do too. should i breakup with him because he pokes another girl and pokes her on the hip should i please help me

Answer 1

Unless he cheats or hurts you, you should always try communication first. Tell him it bothers you, you can say it's not that I am jealous or even think you are flirting with her (unless you do think that). Tell him you are more concerned with the signals he is sending the girl he's poking. Tell him she is going to think he is openly flirting with her. Besides if he's doing it in front of you it makes you look like a fool, that your boyfriend can't keep his hands off other girls. You can try telling him that to start a conversation about it. If you express these feelings to him and it doesn't phase him a bit and he doesn't stop then,
A. he's probably trying to make you jealous or
B. he doesn't care about your feelings.
In either of these cases I would dump him, and find someone who cares about how I feel.

Answer 2

This isn't a really bad thing in a relationship. If him poking another girl really bothers you, you should tell him how much it upsets you. But know that to many other people, him poking someone else DOESN'T mean that he likes her, or he's trying to cheat on you. I could be that she's just a good FRIEND, nothing else. I say this because I'm in a WONDERFUL relationship with my boyfriend -but I get poked, and poke back in defense with many of my guy-friends- even some of these guy-friends have girlfriends also, but me and my friends are only playing with each other and we have NO romantic interest. My boyfriends knows of this, and I would never do anything to hurt him.

Good luck, I hope you find either comfort or your course of action in my action.

Answer 3

No. If the two of you really like each other then you should be able to tell him that you don't feel comfortable when he pokes the other girl. Just because a guy flirts with another girl doesn't necessarily mean that something naughty is going on. Let him know how you feel and if he doesn't respect your wishes then move on.

Answer 4

What does that mean, "pokes" on her hip? Do you mean he pokes her hip jokingly with his finger or is he poking her with something else?

If he's poking her with something else other than his hand then break up with him.

If he's just joking with the other girl and he happened to poke her with his finger on the hip to jokingly tickle her, then you're over reacting. It's too shallow of a reason to break up with someone you really like. Most probably you're just over-jealous. If you really don't like him doing that then just tell him to stop because it's pissing you off. If he still does it after that then hit him in the head and then tell him again.

Answer 5

I wouldn't go so far as to jump the gun and break up with him, ask him about it, discuss it with him what it means and why he pokes her on the hip like that, and tell him how you feel. Don't just dump him because he does one thing you don't like then you'll be leaving relationships left and right.

Answer 6

lol try to do the same thing with another guy and see if he says anythin, if so then tell him that he should put him self in your shoes and see how you feel when he does it to another girl and then get to a final decision whether breaking up or not.

Answer 7

he just poked her, so why break up???
he was just havin' fun... it's not like he's cheatin' on you. I think breakin' up w/ him jst bcoz he poked another grl isn't the right thing to do. it's so unreasonable.=)

Answer 8

hey ...talk wid him abt it....tell him tht u dnt like his doing this ...nd hey ur probably feeling insecure abt this ....so discuss this...dnt leav sum1 becoz of his lame acts

Answer 9

no. he sounds like a fun person and very socialable person.

Answer 10

no that a stupid reason unless he flirting with her too