Last summer me and this guy started talking. We went to school together but never said a word to each other. I would help him get over his old girlfriend and stuff and then he started talking to my friend about me. He told her that he liked me and that he wanted me and wanted to ask me out but he was scared of getting hurt again. I told him not to be scared but everything changed when school started up again. We don't go to the same school so we drifted apart and he never asked me out. I still like him a lot but we don't really talk anymore. He would put songs on his myspace and told me that they reminded him of me. He even told me he loved me. Now I have bands on my myspace and like he would put the same band on his page. We go to the same church so thats our only way of seeing each other. He told me I was the only reason he goes to church. Was I just a rebound? Do you think he still like me? please help.
2007-03-17 20:31:00 · 2 answers · asked by vondee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has liked other girls since then, he wanted to ask another girl out but she turned him down because her friend likes him. i've been talking to other guys and another one likes me. but i just can't seem to get this one out of my head.
2007-03-17 20:42:50 · update #1
Picture this...your 80 years old, and your grandkid just asked....'Gram, is there anything in your life...you wished you could do over again?" Do you want to say...Yes? Don't let the chance go away.. you will regret it forever. There are no such things as rebounds..only paths that leads to other paths...that leads to where you belong. You two are obviously perfect...make your move...don't wait for him..men are afraid of rejection..all of em...make your move!!!
2007-03-17 20:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess, he does still like you. To what extent, i don't know. That's something you should be asking him yourself. Maybe he's still afraid of getting hurt. Maybe he's embarassed because you know how he feels, or at least had felt, and has been reluctant to approach you at that level again. My advice, talk to him about it, it's the only way you'll know for sure. Plus, if he's a great guy, do you really want to lose the chance?
That's my two cents for ya.
2007-03-18 03:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by dontsmokecrackorshootthatsmack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋