okay so what if you have this friend that u call on the phone very often...but that friend never calls u...u always have to call them to chat...does that mean they dont think of u as a friend? they are not too interested in being your friend? should u keep on calling them and thinking of them as a friend? or is it like a one-way thing and u shouldnt bother them? or can u have friends where u are the only one calling?
2007-03-17 20:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
whenever i dont call they will not call. even if i wait for a few days
2007-03-17 20:32:23 · update #1
Why don't you not call them for a few days to see if they call you back? If they don't call you back, then you know.
They might not like to use the phone too much, but there could be a few reasons. I just wouldn't call for a few days and see what happens.
2007-03-17 20:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the personality. If this person is all over the place and disorganised, it can be that they MEAN to call you but never get around to it. If, when you talk, they give you the energy that a friend should, if they listen and you feel good after talking, then I would consider them a friend that happens to be a little thoughtless. In this case, let them know that you're always the one calling and you'll wait for them to call next time. And stick to it.
If they are always too busy and talk about themselves and you find that at the end of the conversation you have not been able to talk about things that you wanted to, then that person is not a friend by my definition. Again, I would bring it up with them and if they react defensively, you will know.
Also, stand back from yourself and look at any other friends that you have. Are you making a lot of effort for this person because you are lonely and haven't many other people you feel close to? Or do you feel an obligation to be friends with this person because you have known them for a while? I don't know those answers, but I do know that when you clear something out of your life, something else always comes along to fill that space.
2007-03-17 20:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by HerbGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times have I encounteresd this. I knew a woman. That was just like this. Yet everytime she called me. I picked up the phone. Or it would take her days to a week. To respond to my texts. Or voicemails I left. After the 3rd or 4th time. I was pretty much done. People shouldn't give out their number. If they don't want you calling them. Or them calling you. That's soooo... stupid. Girl these people aren't your friends. And that out right blatant disrespect. Is a prime example. Regardless as to how small this topic is. That's just wrong.
2007-03-17 20:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by andelagdn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not want to put time in to have a friendship. She will be lonely in the future.
2007-03-17 20:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not like that .it depends on ur nature may be u r more active and respond soon .and ur friends mus be a lazy person u cares least.But i am sure ur friendship is gud and healthy.............
2007-03-17 20:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋