Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

I'm in the UK and going back to attend my sisters wedding in the USA. I'm not in the wedding party. I have a fantastic dark brown, strapless dress (detachable straps) that is nearly floor length. The skirt of the dress is floaty and my entire shoe can be seen. Is this formal length? The shoes are a sparkly slip in sandal and I have a gold wrap for my shoulders. The question I have is will I be overdressed? It's a 3pm church wedding with a 5-11pm reception. I don't want to feel overdressed but I really love the look. I haven't been to a wedding in about 20 years so I don't really know what 'they're wearing' to weddings now. Any suggestions or advice?

2007-03-17 22:42:17 · 3 answers · asked by Rebecca A 1 in Weddings

I don't know why, but it's taking me a really long time to get over my ex-girlfriend, but I do find some comfort in music. I'm looking mainly for songs that are unique and not mainstream (i.e. NOT songs that everyone knows). I've run through all the lists that have to do with break-up songs and they're all the same: emo, top-40, cheesy R&B, I-hate-you-angry-songs, and, of course, "I Will Survive." I know all these songs, and they aren't the ones I'm looking for, so if anyone knows any of those rare songs that I should be listening to, I'd really appreciate it.

2007-03-17 22:39:00 · 10 answers · asked by nitz_983 1 in Singles & Dating

another girl is trying to do the same .(she is my rival).

2007-03-17 22:37:50 · 4 answers · asked by jay 1 in Singles & Dating

Any idea? Should one stay in such a relationship and hope that the other partner will change for the better. Be there for the other partner and try to figure out why he/she acts that way?

2007-03-17 22:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

Can you really hold her and help her without feeling nauseated yourself?

2007-03-17 22:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by karin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-17 22:34:08 · 4 answers · asked by prowelder 1 in Singles & Dating

plz tell me, im not sure whether i should put my head on his shoulder half way through the movie etc. its our first date together and we have already kissed if thats anything to u and ur answer

2007-03-17 22:34:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive found out a couple of months ago that my bf has been looking at other girls naked on the internet, hes registered for the sex and swinger sites, i've confronted him about it but he tells me that hes just having fun and that I should not be worried. He's told me that he will stop but just recently I have found that that he is still doing it and has gotten new email addresses so I will not find out but the difference this time is that he has given out his phone number to someone now. He tells me that I still shouldn't worry that he is with me, but how can I trust him now when he has told me before that he would stop. What I am suppose to do? Should I stay with him or should I leave him? We have been going out for a year, we meet eachother online, I think that is why I'm afraid of him finding someone else on the internet.

2007-03-17 22:32:49 · 15 answers · asked by Lost in a Relationship 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-17 22:31:58 · 15 answers · asked by Dhonu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

[20:44] ME: what is ur ideal thought in ur head about u and me?

[21:06] HIM: u and me...small apartment.....dsl.....cable...i work and u 2.....we fu**k and fight and fu**k....argue, kiss make up.....im jealous.....u fu**k around on me.....i cry......because i love u

2007-03-17 22:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and is truly sorry and swears it was only once and will never happen again, can they be forgiven or ever be trusted again?

2007-03-17 22:30:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This one friend of mine that I have just met… told me that he likes rock music. But I like hip-hop. So I do I share his interest?
Like impress him?

2007-03-17 22:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by Cyrillus R 1 in Friends

So i met this guy a couple of months ago. We hit it off pretty quickly and have been engaged in a steady, sometimes casual dating relationship. Beacuse we wanted to take it slow we where never officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Everything was great until a couple of weeks ago he started getting really jeolous and overprotective. Since then things have been tense but out of no where he stops calling me and than he finally after a week he lets me know he needs some space and that he isnt sure what he wants. I am not willing to wait around but I still would like to understand why all of a sudden he is feeling this way and why everything changed so quickly.

2007-03-17 22:25:13 · 10 answers · asked by lil 1 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this one girl who I am dating laugh together, don’t get angry, no arguments nor fighting whatsoever. However, there are times when I think she is simply holding back and not showing her anger. What are signs that someone is angry or getting angry at you…. sometimes people can hide it.

2007-03-17 22:24:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 22:23:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when the friends (more than one) of a guy you like (he knows you like him) keep watching you from across the room but not the guy you like?

the guy might like you too

sensible and helpful answers please! thanks!

2007-03-17 22:22:13 · 5 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who works in theatre. He's a tech guy, not an actor. I understand that theatre types don't always have steady work but he still seems pretty lazy to me. Don't theatre people do other jobs to support themselves when they have to? He doesn't - at age 30 he lives with his family and just started working on a show after 3 months of sitting around (I know for a fact they wish he would find stability and leave the nest). Or he's always ending up in some sketchy sublease situation with strangers as roommates - and often leaves owing them money. He prowls the net and the bars practically all the time trying to hook up. He's a smart guy and I just don't get it. He's always talking about all the things he wants (house, relationship, stability) but he lives in the clouds and is doing little to get ahead. I find myself taking his calls less and less - he's more like comic relief for me anymore than an all-around friend. Is this the typical artsy personality?

2007-03-17 22:22:07 · 3 answers · asked by TJ 3 in Friends

Ever since I got dumped I realised that he was not worth it, he does not deserve me in the first place. I have made no contact with him, only he made contact which some I ignored, I booked a trip to go to europe for 4 weeks, I am planning to move in with my best girlfriend and I have been started to go out and mingle with new people. I feel like I'm doing the right thing, but I can't stop thinking about my ex, he broke my heart, I tried to get some answers, he says that hes unhappy and doesn't love me anymore 2 months after he dumped me (which meant he dumped me unexpectantly and ran away with no reason) but he doesn't know why. I gave up finding the truth because I wanted to be happy again and live my life, but he's constantly in my mind and I can't get rid of it. I still love him, but I haven't done any extreme measures in getting him back like calling him or stalking him, because I know I am too good to be like that. What should I do?

2007-03-17 22:21:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my ex-girlfriend said she loved me and wanted me to go back with her. I told her that I didn’t have feelings for her like that and that we can still be friends. But she told me she doesn’t want to be friends anymore period. So I lost her as a friend. The same thing happened to me with another person, a friend who I had been talking you. She told me she liked me more than a friend and I told her that I didn’t feel that way. She got angry at me and told me that she didn’t want to be friends anymore. What’s up with these people?

2007-03-17 22:21:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is arab parents allow their son to tie the knot with a girl who non arab muslim.i'm malaysian muslim.Will their accept with open hand??????

2007-03-17 22:19:54 · 9 answers · asked by castle girl 1 in Weddings

I prefer fmf. What about you?

2007-03-17 22:19:26 · 3 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-17 22:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Bossy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi guys and gals! One of the reasons why I broke up with my ex-girl friend is because her heart is still hung on a man from her past. She says that she believes he just might be THE ONE for her to marry. But then she said that she did not want to let go of me because she's afraid she might lose me for good just in case she finds out that he really isn't THE ONE. I try to explain to her that she needs to look into this guy because that is the only way she will gain any closure with this situation but she needs to let go of me while she does it. But she doesn't want to let me go she wants us to have a close and intimate relationship with each other while she looks into seeing if this is the guy for her. When I explain to her that she would be using me if she did that she disagrees and says she doesn't understand why that would be using me. She's 29 yrs old. Is it possible for someone her age to really not understand this concept? Or is she using that as an excuse?

2007-03-17 22:17:08 · 16 answers · asked by tonianewin2004 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my potential girlfriend did St.Pattys bash.....she passed out aroud 4:00am. She did it up when we got back..heels @ hose.......first time....after bathroom break she suggets i put something on...before you know it i had on thongs and a garter belt w/ thigh highs.........she loved it........why?

2007-03-17 22:16:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you’re dating someone are they considered your girlfriend?

2007-03-17 22:15:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of the good life!

2007-03-17 22:15:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, just wondering if all singles feel the same way as I do. There are times when I simply enjoy being singles, doing the things which I like without having to care about others, without having to compromise to please the other partner.

But yet there are times when i crave for love. How do you singles out there deal with all these conflicting feelings?

2007-03-17 22:13:42 · 14 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

I really fancy some but theres none in the cupboard. I know I bought some yesterday..........

2007-03-17 22:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was walking past my parents bedroom last nite & heard dad say something about wanting to ride something, like a pony...then i heard an excited scream. What does it mean is happening in there?

2007-03-17 22:11:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Mother in law keeps trying to get ingredients for family dressing out of me.It was passed on from my grandma to my mom to me..and I plan to pass it to my daughters..It's not to be passe to anyoneelse..this is why it's a family recipe!She also keeps trying to get me to cook it whenever olidays come around..even though she's thehost and we're supposed to be eating her food!How to get her to stop?

2007-03-17 22:09:42 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family