Any idea? Should one stay in such a relationship and hope that the other partner will change for the better. Be there for the other partner and try to figure out why he/she acts that way?
2007-03-17 22:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy pushes a girl, insults her verbally, scolds her stupid and unreasonable, leaves her alone and crying in public. Are these signs of a abusive relationship? haha..
2007-03-17 22:48:37 · update #1
Any relationship that makes you feel small or cheated is not a healthy relationship. If you have doubts NOW, get out NOW! Life is way too short to spend it with someone that cares only about himself.
2007-03-17 22:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by amishpantry 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's one thing I have learned from the experience of many others...
Don't be together with someone in hopes that they will change. If there's an abusive relationship, the best thing is to get out of it when you can. You can't expect people to change. And even if they do, but they won't take you back because they think you abandoned them or some other stupid crap, it's still best to move on--I know I wouldn't want to have someone be mad at me when I was just protecting myself.
2007-03-17 22:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
in accordance for your options, i'd say no, it wouldn't have the early earmarks for abusive relationships. in spite of the undeniable fact that, he sounds truly needy and that could nicely be a pink-flag for problem ordinarily. the youngster question is truly benign. That sounds like he replaced into basically asking about her pastimes - what made her tick. Hopes and aims and all that. assembly the dad and mom received't have any value in any respect to him except they're major to him and he's invited her over. per chance he spends dinner each xxxxx at the same time with his relatives? transferring in sounds chance free too. Is your buddy the style to ***** about her contemporary living preparations? per chance he replaced into basically attempting to help her out. As for the weekend in Vegas, i imagine that could nicely be a foul idea until eventually she has the money to get homestead and out of there and a backup protection plan in position. ...and nevertheless i'd not do it. ultimately, all of that's on your human beings palms. in spite of if it were a doubtlessly abusive relationship, until eventually your buddy truly has her head at the same time and could hearken to others about her relationships, she will do what she needs to until eventually such time as she receives out of that section. Stick by ability of her in spite of if she does some thing dumb...ultimately, she'll snap out of it and favor each of the affection and assist you may provide.
2016-12-02 04:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd Q, if your in one, they will not change, it only gets worse. they may change for someone eles but never you. really. the first signs that happen, happen a lot of the times when its not there. He will lie to you, he will want too know where your at all times, but won't tell you. he will use your feeling against you, make you feel guilty when you did nothing wrong. The next sign is a biggy, he will start pushing you to stop talking to family and long time friends "so and so doesn't like me, either her or me" Then when it them and only them in your life, the start doing the really bad stuff.
2007-03-17 22:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Signs include:
~ wearing clothing such as long turtle necks, and long sleeves, even when the weather doesn't permit it.
~ not wanting to go out
~ lack of self-confidence, and self-esteem
~ lack of communication with family or friends
~ bruises, cuts
Just get out of abusive relationships. It's not worth it. I watched my mother get abused by different men as a child, and none of them changed through that time.
2007-03-17 22:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by 9987 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There are no signs at the beginning. They come subtly and you won't even realize. By the time you realize it is to late. Your own self will be so crippled you will not no right from wrong and will become a dismissive slave to him.
If you think anything is wrong now GET OUT you will never change him.
2007-03-17 22:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lolipop 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A controlling personality, male or female. Abuse doesn't have to be someone physically taking advantage, it can be mental.
People often go from one abusive relationship to another. If either of your parents were abusive, you are more liable to either be abusive or seek out an abusive mate.
If you have any problems in breaking the chain of abuse, seek counseling immediately.
2007-03-17 22:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Will it really help you? There's nothing wrong with being there for someone. But what are your intentions? Everybody learns to find themselves differently. Don't expect someone to change on your behalf. Where will it get them? Focusing on yourself makes sense. Trying to "fix" someone to fit your needs doesn't . God luck sent your way with whatever you choose. -----------Ok after reading your new details, It hurts me to know that you're being hurt. It only gets easier to push someone around when they stick around to let it keep happening. It would be in good interest to let go. Whatever you're holding on to is not worth what you may be sacrificing. There's better out there. Give yourself the chance to find on one.
2007-03-17 22:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by monkeye 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When the woman starts snooping through the guy's things, accusing him of cheating, expecting him to be home at a certain time, getting snotty if he talks to other women. All sure signs of impending emotional abuse from her.
2007-03-17 22:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 22:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by drew 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋