How can I become a good husband?

Answer 1

my guess is open communication

Answer 2

1) Marry a Woman that you Like ! ..........It is easy to "LOVE" someone.......But how many people do you "Actually Like" enough to spend the rest of your life around them?
2) Don't think that by working 16 out of 24 hrs a day that you are a good Husband !
The woman you Marry deserves more time with you than just when you eat , sleep & Sheet Streak. Make "time to be with her" more important most things you do alone.
3) Have respect for yourself and your apearance !
People will look at you as an Example of the condition of your merriage and the caring of your wife.....you look like hell ,that must be how the merriage is too.
Also.....if you don't have respect for yourself ......How can she have respect for you?
4) Don't tell her what you think she wants to hear !
Placating and "little white lies" will never strengthen the trust and Bond that you are trying to build.
5)Never be Too Much Of A Man To do some cooking or help with the dishes or vacuum .
A Real man has been doing those things for you while you were a bachelor.........YOU ! She's Your Spouse.....not your Slave !
6) sometime , just for the hell of it , bring her home a flower .
Not one from the store ! But one you either found out in the hills or picked on the way home from work . It says alot more that just grabbing one of those cheap looking things at the check out line of 7-11.
7) remember" Her Birthday" & "Your Anniversary" !!!!
If you forget .....she will probably say......oh it's ok honey......it's no big deal.........Don't you believe it ! Those are the most Important days you will ever have to remember ! and don't just get her some cheap little card or somthin' . Go Shopping sucker ! Put out some effort on her !
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This is just a few Ideas for you.........But if you miss one of them on the list............You Ain't very good as a Husband !
Are You?

Answer 3

Maybe if its not good communication talk more show her more affection spend more time just leave lil notes around to let her know howmuch you love or evey once in awhile take her out to a romantic dinner or just a romantic night at home with rose petals leadindng to the tub with candals and some wine or champagine and after that have the rose petals leading to the bed then there goes the good you know!!! lol

Answer 4

do you remember how attentive you were, how romantic you were when you were dating?????

Don't stop!!

So often women find out they have married a different man. the wonderful man that they married is gone.. y'all look the same, and smell the same, but you don't surprise her with a rosebud for no reason anymore. you don't bring her home a book by her favorite author. Man, for some reason, you forget the name of the author as soon as the honeymoon is over..... lol

You need to listen to her.. Communicate. when that breaks down the bridge gets an enormous crack in it.

I worked with the public a lot.. I couldn't yell at them, but sometimes I would get so angry I could just spit.. I would come home and tell my husband.... We need to have a fight and you need to let me win! he said.. OK..the he would tell me he hated the carpet that I had picked out,, or the wall paint.. something ridiculous.. then it would all come out.. he would say that the carpet was a great color and I would start to cry about the horrible people that I had had to deal with all day, He just held me. That's all I needed. I needed to win, just once that day. And he knew it. So....... he let me.

Sometimes if I just got home frustrated because of traffic, he would jump up, "on alert" do you need to have a fight???? I feel a loss coming on....... he made me laugh.

Make her laugh.. Go to the grocery store with her, or at least offer, and mean it. I hate it, but it's not so bad when my best friend is with me.

After over 30 years he still holds my hand when we go out. I still get a kiss when he leaves the room. When he gets home, if I'm not in the room he calls out... where's my wife?????

He calls me his gift from God, every day for 34 yrs. even when I was in the hospital getting chemo and was bald as a cue ball, I told him not to look at me, I looked terrible.. he called me his gift from God.

Make sure she knows every day that she is your gift.

Then you'll be a good husband.

Answer 5

you cant become a good husband over night, it will take time. Support your family, help your wife with the housework and the kids. Take time for yourself. Remember to tell your wife she is beautiful and you love her. It takes two to make a relationship work, communication and honesty are the key.

Answer 6

The fact that you care enough to ask the question makes me think that you'll probably have no problem in this area. I would ask your future or current wife, everyone is so different. You only care about being a good husband to YOUR wife. Good luck, not that you'll need it.

Answer 7

Ask your wife what she expects from you and what she thinks you need to do to be a good husband. Communication is very important. Every woman wants something different.

Answer 8

Be like my husband! Just show your wife that you love her and like everybody already said: listen, talk and try to find out what the other person wants. Good luck!

Answer 9

simply by being yourself. just continue to be the same man she married. And never forget to throw in a few compliments to her on a weekly basis. Keep letting her know she looks good, and only if you mean it.

Answer 10

Being a good hubby takes time you two have to get to know each other completely --- commuicate, sex, going out, massages, doing things together -- hiking, fishing, boating, anything, share and share alike,cook for her every now and then. do not fight over money.

Answer 11

Help ur wife around the house.. Never depend too much on ur wife(it'll stress her up too much...) dont spend too much money on leisure.. dont deriv or strive ur wife of money. And most important BE SUPPORTIVE! never look down on her! NEVER! it's alot but thats the thing.. gd luck..