So i met this guy a couple of months ago. We hit it off pretty quickly and have been engaged in a steady, sometimes casual dating relationship. Beacuse we wanted to take it slow we where never officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Everything was great until a couple of weeks ago he started getting really jeolous and overprotective. Since then things have been tense but out of no where he stops calling me and than he finally after a week he lets me know he needs some space and that he isnt sure what he wants. I am not willing to wait around but I still would like to understand why all of a sudden he is feeling this way and why everything changed so quickly.
2007-03-17 22:25:13 · 10 answers · asked by lil 1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mean 'closure'. Two words: Move On.
Good luck, you dont need this psichological crap from a guy or anyone for that matter.
2007-03-17 22:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowhere in your question do I see that he asked you to "wait around", and you shouldn't. Neither do you have the right to demand to know "what went wrong" . It's enough to know in such a relationship that the chemistry went sour.
I say don't worry about reasons, because perhaps he's unfairly blaming YOU, and you don't need that blame if you did nothing wrong, or anything that you won't do in the future. Just move on, you haven't lost anything since the relationship was new.
Feelings can change about people in a moment. Women do that all the time, right, so may men.
2007-03-17 22:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could very well be that this jealous and overly-protective guy is setting you up for a life of abuses. Those are the typical signs of abusive men who will do all in their power to get their victim to really fall for them before they really show their true colours. Even though the signs are there before it's too late, the "girl in want of heart" will more often than not look the other way and ignore them (the signs) until it becomes too late. Just like a bug in the spider's net, she gets caught in a life of abuse and misery, trying to understand how the man they love and who loves them or so they think as these men don't even know how to love themselves. Stick with him and you'll become his emotional crutch, physical punch bag and spiritual condemnation as you'd empower him to use you in every sense of the way. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that jealousy has nothing to do with love. It's a tool that controllers use to better control their victims. I'd really watch my steps if I were you.
2007-03-17 22:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had to look it up, but:
cloture - The only procedure by which the Senate can vote to place a time limit on consideration of a bill or other matter, and thereby overcome a filibuster.
Why would you need to find that?
2007-03-17 22:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Blind Squirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a popular saying in my town which says, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"? He never intended having a serious relationship with you.He has already gotten what he wanted and has moved on. I guess you should move on too,your b,f has probably gotten himself another "cow".
2007-03-17 22:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-17 22:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by tuff luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like immaturity, the sex was more then the relationship use these skills in the next relationships you in counter remember to make a commitment if you want to fall in love
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2007-03-17 22:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by bradlie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may still need time his self be careful and just watch what happens you can date more than one person at a time.
2007-03-17 22:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by bug_puddin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe hes found someone else??..
2007-03-17 22:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie80876 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋