You can still be friends?

Question

One of my ex-girlfriend said she loved me and wanted me to go back with her. I told her that I didn’t have feelings for her like that and that we can still be friends. But she told me she doesn’t want to be friends anymore period. So I lost her as a friend. The same thing happened to me with another person, a friend who I had been talking you. She told me she liked me more than a friend and I told her that I didn’t feel that way. She got angry at me and told me that she didn’t want to be friends anymore. What’s up with these people?

Answer 1

It takes a level of emotional maturity to go from intimacy to friendship and some people do not have it. It's not your problem and you have nothing to apologize for. Sometimes people grow and are able to accomplish this with time. Sometimes they never do. Anyway its not your job to teach them, you just let them do what they are able to do.

Answer 2

Girl are very easy to get angry. If you want a girlfriend treat her like a normal friend not like husband and wife.

Answer 3

You probably hurt there feelings and they wanted to be with you but you don't want to be with them maybe in time they will understand and forgive you but for now be careful and let them go their way. If they don't come around then they weren't much of a friend. Sorry. I will be your friend though and talk to you.

Answer 4

Well it's sometimes hard for a girl to get rejected because we experince a lot of emotions. It was probably hard for them to accept it. Did you break it to them nicely?

Answer 5

SORRY,i have same problem but in my case i in love with some1 & he doesn't love me .still we r gud fds.
i think fdship should not depend on love.
u both should go head to ur fdship,but if she is not intresting to be ur fd,then forget her.