me and this girl were best friends for about a year. that whole year she had a huge crush she describes it as "for a girl to like you this much is once in a lifetime". i didnt ever think of her as more than a friend until we started messing around during the summer and then at the end of the summer we got together. i gave her everything she could want. if she wanted something i bought it for her. i look around me and i see guys treating their girl like **** and they get more than i got from my girlfriend. i was always kind to my girlfriend and in return she never cared about my feelings, played with my emotions, ignored me, left me for her friends but i still loved her. our relationship got better and we were both happy. she never made time for me even though i drop any plans for her and always told her how much i loved her and appreciated me. girls wanted me but i didnt ever cheat on her even if she treated me like **** and constantly played with my emotions and never listened to me..
2007-03-17 20:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by robin c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was always there for her and supported her. people always told me to break up with her and that i could do better but i was in love with this girl and didnt want another even if i didnt ever get any from her. one day we got in a fight because again she didnt care about my feelings and didnt listen to me and we stopped talking for a week and i didnt wanna call her cuz i thought i she was wrong and she didnt wanna call me cuz she thought i was wrong. i went to go see her at work and she was treating me like **** for the first time in months she was ignoring me and was acting like she didnt wanna talk to me. i asked her if we could spend some deserved time together and she said yes but at last minute she said no and i got very angry and later that day she called me and broke up with me because she said she realized she didnt love me. even if i could do better, even if girls want me i cant get over her. my friends tell me find another girl but im finding it hard to stop thinking abouther
2007-03-17 20:27:53 · update #1
i need help i cant stop thinking about her even if she is a ***** to me i was right nice guys finish last because i used to be an asshole (this is when she liked me) and when i became nice i finished last and got nothing i want. i see guys being complete assholes to girls and they get more.i seen complete assholes get better girls than me. i tell myself to go back to the old ways but i cant help but be nice to girls but IT ISNT WORKING OBVIOUSLY people tell me ill find a girl wholl love me back and treat me the way i should be treated but TALK IS CHEAP. i want to move on but i dont know how to forget about her she told me she loved me and i fell in love with her but our whole relationship was one big lie I WANT TO MOVE ON FIND A BETTER GIRL OR SOMETHING PLEASE HELP ME
2007-03-17 20:30:24 · update #2
You are wrong! Nice guys do not finish last! I can understand why you think that is true, however, your ex did not appreciate a good decent guy, she sounded as if her personality is one of being: self-centered, insincere, take what she could, and basically just not a nice person. Somehow I don't think you being a nice guy mattered one Way or the other. Your ex probably treats everybody the same awful way. Do you really want to change into some creep? There are great girls out there, believe me, you will not be happy being a jerk. Give yourself some credit, the right girl will come along. Girls that are worthwhile, do prefer Gentlemen.
2007-03-25 07:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from personal experience the best way to get over someone and move on is to find someone else. If you fill your time with someone other than her you won't have time to think about her. And on top of that you may just find someone you really care about who is going to treat you right.
2007-03-26 02:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by black and white beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to love many people in many ways in a lifetime- imagine if you didnt..... hold on to the love you feel but put in in a place that is as valuable to your freind as to you,deep in your heart for ever.,
2007-03-26 03:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by lolleighlegs 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Another girl will help you forget.
2007-03-18 05:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON.GET ANOTHER GIRL IN BED AND ALL NEW THOUGHTS WILL COME WITH HER.
2007-03-26 01:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by a1972chevytruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Party your *** off!!!
2007-03-26 01:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋