My mom died for about 4 years but then it still hurts knowing that she was gone.
2007-03-17 23:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by shekinah_78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how you feel..
My mum died too, And im only 14..
I suppose we just have to face the fact that their gone.. Nothing we say or do is ever going to bring them back..
But we know deep down in our hearts that we still love them..
I know i will miss my mum forever.. No matter what kind of age i am, The saddest thing i get most upset about is realising she wont be there even for my wedding..
Even for when i have kids...
Shes looking over you x
Don't you ever forget that x
2007-03-18 00:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry to hear that =( HUGS.
i think it hurts because they are a big part of ur life, especially being your mum.. i had a friend who died and i only knew her through the internet and it hurts me even now because she was a good person and even if i never knew her to that extent, it still makes me sad (this happened about 3 years ago..)
we have emotions and memories that make us happy and sometimes we wish we could play back or relive the moments and do something different or we just cry because we miss them so much and wish they were here to hear what we want to say, or how we feel, you know..
time heals all. things like a death of a loved one is something that is not easily forgotten but the pain will heal eventually .. dont make urself not feel sad anymore because u need to mourn however long it may take.. and when u feel like u wanna cry and u cant stop, just think about ur mom and how she would hate to see you that way and remember the good times u had and how if she was here now, she'd be smiling just to see you doing just that =)
take care
xox
2007-03-17 23:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we love ourselves. See, a loveone is some one who loves us, right? Death of a love one hurts, as we see that a person who was loving me, taking care of me so much, is no more. Means, we feel that I won't feel the love of that person anymore, or I won't be taken care of by that person anymore.
More the dead person was loving me, more she / he was important to me, will hurt me more, as then I will have one person less who is thinking about me, and caring about me.
2007-03-17 23:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by www.vedicearth.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss everything about them. Remember (and it helps), we are the ones hurting, not them, They are as happy as can be. Imagine not having all these worries and confusion of every day living. We suffer when we are born and while we live, not when we pass.
2007-03-17 23:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll hun thats life it really kills when a beloved one dies.. i was in ur shoes once, its normal to feel sad over yrs & yrs but at last life will never stop & u'll get used to it & live with nice memmories only!!
2007-03-17 23:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every thing that happens unexpectedly hurts but you can live with sweet memories.
2007-03-18 00:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everythng which happens unexpectedly, HURTS!
n v never even think that our luvd ones can seperate from us! n it happens so suddenly n quickly that v can never recover...
2007-03-17 23:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Brains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would sadden me but you have to move on.
2007-03-17 23:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋