Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

I recently ran into the sister of a boyfriend I had 17 years ago, she commented that her family had always wished that I'd married her brother! This has blown me away because I've been separated 6 months and have always had wonderful memories of him. I know that his marriage has been difficult and that it is over now too. I'm a bit unsure about what it all means!!!

2007-03-20 23:38:40 · 9 answers · asked by Clare E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean would it be crazy or foolish to just pick up and leave town and start all over somewhere far far away? Is that running away or is that just trying to start fresh? I haven't been at my job that long so it would be no skin off my nose to get another one, and I don't have any obligations to family, roommates, or anything like that... Its just that my wife left me last year and her reason was that she had never really loved me. My girlfriend whom I've been with for less than half a year says that she can't love me the way I deserve to be loved. Everything reminds me of both of them and I loved them both so much.

2007-03-20 23:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by Patrick E 6 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 4 and half yrs and recently got engaged. we have a fantastic sex life, but we hardly ever kiss. i have asked the reason why to him and he says that he is not really into kissing and "making love" romantically. we have crazy, wild sex and always have had throughout our relationship. for some time now i have been thinking that there is something wrong with me, like do i have bad breath, am i a bad kisser or does he just not think of me in a romantic way. but a few weeks ago he said that the reason that he doesnt like kissing me is that it feels weird as i have had collagen in my lips and that he can feel that it is not natural. it bothers me a little bit as i love kissing and find it turns me on during sex. i also think that kissing is a very intimate thing that couples in love. i have never had problem like this in any of my other previous relationships. what do you think??

2007-03-20 23:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by pom pom 1 in Weddings

2007-03-20 23:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by Sally 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in a role reversal marriage where I am the breadwinner and go to work and he stays home and takes care of the house, cooking, and cleaning. Recently I've noticed that some of my clothing (lingerie, blouses, delicates) is requiring hand-wash. I think my husband should be taking care of that since he is home all day and its his job. What do you think?

2007-03-20 23:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by Claudia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 23:34:21 · 19 answers · asked by Choccywoccy 3 in Weddings

A few days ago I decided to tell a friend I loved her. The only thing is she told me she thought of me as a really good friend and nothing else, she also told me she liked someone else. The problem is I can't stop thinking about her, and don't want to give up. What do I do now?

2007-03-20 23:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy in a bar last fri and we got talking,he was stunningly attractive and i felt flattered he was pursuing me,he dropped me home in a cab and we had a little kiss,i met him the next day for a drink and tak,and he started going on about how he'd never met anyone like me and he was ready to settle down with someone like me and get married,i found this really full on and laughed it off,he carried on throughout the night making these comments,and tellin people i was his girlfriend..after 1 day!! i do like him and we have a great laugh and get on and it doesnt help the fact that hes totallly gorgeous,he just seems a bit nuts to me and very full on,ive explained i want to get to know him before i even decide if i want a relationship or not and he said he's fine with that but he still continuing to be on my case constantly,calling me etc..what should i do????

2007-03-20 23:33:22 · 13 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 23:32:09 · 17 answers · asked by swati_0403 1 in Family

2007-03-20 23:30:22 · 23 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my guy friends like one of my girl friends since hte two of them hav bee good frens for long she feels awkward. he is really depressed and keeps asking me what to do i've tried PRACTICALY EVERTHING and he still feels bad. im the messenger but im really worried about him.
the qustion is: HOW DO YOU REBUILD UP A FRIENDSHIP? and lose awkwardness?

(and this is also the case with another of my guy friends he likes my best friend and he talksto me too.....ugh)

if u have had experience that would be great! thanks so much to all who give decet answers :)

2007-03-20 23:30:15 · 3 answers · asked by pitchaya. 3 in Friends

You see a beautiful girl when you are out and about, but you don't know if she fancies you. Is it ok to start a conversation with her and then probably invite her to go for a drink with you.

2007-03-20 23:28:10 · 14 answers · asked by Danny 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you go back to and why? anything unfinished that you would have liked to do?

2007-03-20 23:26:52 · 27 answers · asked by shane o d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it true that it mustnt be true love if you have to question it?

I saw something in my sisters room about her fiance, she had written down questions like " Do i really love him?" "Do i want him in my life forever?" and all sorts of questions like this. So what do you think? does she really love him or is she settling for him?

2007-03-20 23:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

do guys ever get confused with their feelings for a girl and scared?

2007-03-20 23:24:47 · 16 answers · asked by parent 1 in Singles & Dating

Help Me Plzz
What could i do to know wether she loves me or not?????

2007-03-20 23:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by ganesh mallya 2 in Singles & Dating

LTR girfriends and wives have high expectations of you, but they don't appreciate anything you did for them. Friends with benefits don't expect anything from you but when you do something nice for them they at least say thank you.

2007-03-20 23:23:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He seems to want to Hang out more then to spend quality time with her. He is the one who watches her in the mornings as I go to work and he sleeps more then he plays with her.

I have told him before that we need quality time together as a family if we want to continue to be seeing each other like this. it Hurts me because he is the only Man that my daughter has ever known, she even calls him "daddy" (that was her choice I never taught her that). we have been together like this for about 10 months (dating longer then that). what should I do? should I try to work things out or will he always be this SELFISH?

2007-03-20 23:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by imjae_02 1 in Singles & Dating

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. once my mate said oh she 4 got me and he was there and he was like oh my chere

2007-03-20 23:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ya... i do sometimes...

2007-03-20 23:19:13 · 39 answers · asked by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

men or women

2007-03-20 23:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by highswanton_bomb 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you in a relationship, kids? Details please! x
I've been with a guy 2 years, we live together and have sex maximum 2 times a month. We have no kids but his sister has moved in with us this year. She's 30. He's 33

2007-03-20 23:16:37 · 10 answers · asked by Kate 3 in Singles & Dating

my question is what u need to make for good friend?like a good nature,funny.what is ur opinion just tell me n make it friendship with me i give u the my mobile number also when u joint me.

2007-03-20 23:15:41 · 7 answers · asked by Mukesh D 1 in Friends

I will be marrying soon and i have heard that women nowadays
stray away if they do not get satisfaction in sex, I understand 70% of men are unable to control their ejacgulation and ejactuate fast. Any advise please.

2007-03-20 23:14:37 · 23 answers · asked by Black sheep 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most divorces nowaday are because the wives found someone they think better than their husbands.

2007-03-20 23:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 23:11:13 · 26 answers · asked by charlotte 2 in Singles & Dating

The problem is : I have no friends in my class at all but i do have my friends in other classes. Whenever during pairwork or group work,I'm always the odd one out and others already have their cliques yet I'm the only one on my own and i can feel that they're quite hostile to me and often throw things at me behind my back. Given this situation last time,I would have just cried but somehow i didnt feel an ounce of sadness at all for them ostracizing me,is it correct for me to be oblivious to them? becaue i have tried to be friends with them but they just rejected me,so now i try to excel in my studies and repick myself up and meet up with my good friends in other classes during other times - am i doing the right thing?

2007-03-20 23:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-20 23:08:47 · 3 answers · asked by amber2035 1 in Friends

My friend and I were having a little discussion of how important cologne/perfume is in the attraction process. I know most people for the most part look at the physical body of the person, but doesn't cologne/perfume give that extra push that makes you want someone over another??

2007-03-20 23:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by HaLF_BaKeD123 3 in Singles & Dating

what can i do about my evil stepmother. shes a typical evil stepmother. she pretends to be nice infront of my dad and when hes gone shes really mean. my dad knows that because she says bad things about us infont of my dad but and yet he still defends her. he has faught with her so many times but shes not changing and she keeps saying extrmely rude things about my mother infront of me. i tell her off but it makes a fight and problems. i hate problems. what do i do.

2007-03-20 23:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by jaz a 1 in Family