Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

I am really feelin this guy and from what he is sayin he is really feelin me but I am going to wait a while before I have sex with him b/c thay is somethin I want to do and I want him to respect me and as well as respecting myself. Would you respect a woman that had sex with you after a month? 2 weeks? how much would you respect her? How long of a wait? No wait until you married answers plz I know that is best but not really reality.

2007-03-20 20:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

What would you say if a man e-mailed you at work?

2007-03-20 20:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

why cant i move on from my ex? it has been a year and i still love himsooooo much. how come i cant move on??

2007-03-20 20:50:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a black female 26 yrs.I ve a black b/friend that i ve been with for 2 yrs.I then met a white guy his 30yrs while i was having lunch.fast forward 3 months later i slept with him.it has been 9 months & i'm still seeing him & i enjoy beening with him.I love my b/friend but i don't know what to do.I'm confused & scared.My family loves my b/friend & sees him as my future husband.
I ve been having a secret affair with this guy & he knows i ve a boyfriend.After sleeping with the other guy i noticed that i don't want my b/friend to touch me & he has asked me what is wrong because he notices i avoid having sex with him.The funny this is i love having sex with other guy but i think we can't have a serious relationship because he is white. He on the other hand thinks we can.He has given 3 months to leave my b/friend or he leaves.My parents will kill me if i leave my b/friend for a white man.My b/friend has been a good man but i ve fallen for the other guy.what should i do? Serious answers

2007-03-20 20:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me be more specific. I'm married but I live in Dubai alone as my husband works in another country. I'd like to make friends with people whom I can meet up over the weekend and go out with. I'd prefer unmarried people (men/women) cause married men come with a lot of baggage and thats enough for them to keep them busy....any takers?

2007-03-20 20:50:05 · 5 answers · asked by pournima 1 in Friends

I am going through a divorce rite now my husband be a good dad but since we seperated and he found someone new he has seen the kids maybe one hour in the past 3 weeks my son had just started wanting to hang out with daddy when it started now he has gotten totally out of control and very emotional snd screams that he wants his dad and hits me telling me how much he hates me and he calls me by my name he's 3 and I have no idea how to handle this situation

2007-03-20 20:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by latisha92557 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-bf and I have broke up for 1 month plus after 7 months of courtship. He said that I am not giving him any space and he feel suffocated. We have broken up and get back many times but I believed this is the last straw. Cos after compromising to him alot of times, he still has no intention to get back with me. He said that he enjoy being single and do all the things which he like. Nevertheless, he still answer my calls and go out with me occasionally. I really love him and want to be with him. What should I do to bring back our relationship? He will be leaving the country in 2 weeks time for business trip and would only be back 2 months later. I want to get back with him before he leave. Right now, I have already stopped interferring with his life. But I feel that no matter what I do, he will not be moved. Please advise.

2007-03-20 20:48:57 · 8 answers · asked by StarGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm new in this site and very naive. When I posted for the first time, one guy responded that "he would rock my world" and being a convent-bred girl, I was really intrigued by it. We have been e-mailing since and it had been pretty intense. I know there's anonymity and all that (so maybe it's safe enough) but I still want to know your opinions/comments on this. Am I treading on hot waters?
Please help.

2007-03-20 20:41:21 · 21 answers · asked by tin2 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy that i met over the summer at a public pool and i really like him and i finally got his number from a friend and i called him but i dont know if her likes me back but in the summer he was asking my sister a bunch of questions about me but i dont know what to do because i want to ask him to the movies this weekend but i dont want to get rejected because my mom is joining the pool this summer and im sure his dad is too so there is no possible way that i could avoid him what should i do?

2007-03-20 20:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by monkey_lover808 1 in Singles & Dating

actually bestfriend that you are in love with.. but he is not aware of that...

2007-03-20 20:39:58 · 4 answers · asked by crystalink 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello I have a few questions, This girl I work with I have great interest In starting a friendship and hopefully going forward from there. I've talked with her a few times once for about an hour. She had told me some Odd personal thing's she did as a kid I listened like a normal guy would. I realy wanna ask her out But everytime I consider doing it I shoot myself down before asking, I think she maybe interested in another guy I work with Although He has a girlfriend and she know's it. She sometime drops suddle hints about wanting somebody to goto lunch with her around me sometimes but again I shoot myself down. Now Im a confident guy But this one girl just makes me crazy to be around Not like other girls I've dated. Maybe somebody could put a little insight for me.

2007-03-20 20:39:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 18 months and I had a massive fight last night.He claims I always put him last and make him feel bad about himself and I couldn't agree less.Examples:
He was sick with the flu for 3 weeks and I didn't go see him but talked to him on the phone.What else was I supposed to do?If I went over there I could have caught it too.
He was in a car accident 3 months ago and ended up with a broken arm and leg and a concussion.He got mad at me because when I got the call from the hospital at like 7 am,I was sleeping off a night of partying and didn't go to see him until 6pm that day.Did he want me to drive over there half-asleep?He claims I put him down all the time in front our friends.I may talk about hooking up with other guys in front of him but it's all said in good fun and everyone but him takes it that way.He also keeps getting mad when I flirt with my ex.My ex and I are just like that.It's harmless fun and nothing more.
He's threatening to dump me if I don't change.

2007-03-20 20:37:26 · 27 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

I became good friends with this girl at work, only one problem she has a boyfriend but he lives about 100 miles away so they are distant and been going out for a year with him. He already cheated on her once, he also calls her names, gets mad at her really easy, and very controlling of her. After about a month I knew i should make my move so I did and swept her off her feet, she broke up with her boyfriend and started dating me but after a month she said she missed him, and broke up with me, I asked whats wrong with me she said "nothing", I asked what she sees in him all she can say is I miss him. Why do assholes like that get awsome girls? I gave her her first flowers, I was surprised about that, she just wants to be friends too, but i'm trying to win her back, should I keep trying?

2007-03-20 20:37:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 20:37:14 · 14 answers · asked by ramesh s 1 in Friends

it seems like everytime i try to get closer to a girl...something gets in the way...whether its the girl already having a bf or by her just not being interested...I know i can be shy but i try my best to open up but it just doesn't seem to work out. I ask a girl out on a date and there have been many that simply dont follow up with a phone call for me to go pick them up even after I try calling them a couple of times. what am I doing wrong?

2007-03-20 20:37:05 · 5 answers · asked by jroq 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else seem to agree with me? They grow up fantasizing about prince charming and are conditioned to think that's what they need, but in reality they are blood thirsty vampires who like a guy who is cocky and a jerk. Their mind is one thing, and their instincts are another. Ever hear the term women date nice guys but marry azzholez!

2007-03-20 20:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I get my child support reduced if I am expecting a child in another marriage?

2007-03-20 20:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by keebos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

help me pleas

2007-03-20 20:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by gs 1 in Singles & Dating

respected sir,
i am an 18 year old boy confronting with deep psychological problems.I have never studied in a co-educational school and have never felt a great inclination for girls(in my neighbourhood and in my music/art classes 2-3 years back).I am a studious boy,a lover of aesthetics,who is undergoing coaching for engineering exams.After passing my boards with a whopping 93% i set out to accomplish the aforementiond task.At the coaching i joined ,however there was a girl in my batch for whom i felt a deep inclination and an unknown attraction.I started talking to her and felt my subconcious attached with her.I smuggled her phone number and surprised her.Every activity of mine was an act of impulse rather than deliberation.I felt her to be the distroyer of my mental peace and i hastily left that coaching and joined another.Even then i was not able to evacuate my mind . Since the last few months she was constantly on my mind.Not a single day did pass when i did not remember her.She is not too beautiful and not at all intelligent.I do not know her history and i am unable to gauge her attitude towards me.she has studied in a co-ed and i have seen her talking to many boys.There is a subtle look of derisive mockery,appreciation vanity and i dont know what in her eyes when we talk.She used to inflame me by peeping over her shoulders when i used to be seated at her back.She begins to breathe heavily when we talk on the phone.Is she afraid of my advances?I do not look at her in any unchaste manner.
I am realy sad to say that iam not able to assuage my mind,free it from the tenacious grip of her thoughts.She is turning me a mental and moral bankrupt.on top of everything exams are coming near.WHAT IN THE NAME OF THE LORD AM I TO DO?PLEASE HELP

2007-03-20 20:34:56 · 18 answers · asked by maxovich 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' won't be having any family at our ceremony for reasons of distance. We where hoping that there was a way to do a live internet broadcast. Is there a way to do this? And please tell me that it's cheap, we're on a tight budget.

2007-03-20 20:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by solace001 1 in Weddings

Why do/did you want one?
Are you happy with her?

2007-03-20 20:33:47 · 12 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 44 and the guy is 33 is that way too much of a difference in age?

2007-03-20 20:33:22 · 22 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Singles & Dating

is it holding on or letting go?

2007-03-20 20:32:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 20:31:37 · 21 answers · asked by super_high_sky c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mines not. His toenails on his big toes are literally so long and gnarly, that they ripped a hole in his socks, and he's STILL wearing em!!! No joke.

2007-03-20 20:30:41 · 4 answers · asked by !!joinCampaignforLiberty!! 4 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question asking y everytime i send a picture of my son 2 his father the prison send it back then a girl on here who goes by heather says my sons father is a bad influence because he is in prison when the reason he is in there is because i was 17 and he was 20 when our son was conceived even tho we were together since he was 16 but i would liked to know y he is a bad influence so heather if u read this please answer

2007-03-20 20:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

His god-brother said the guy has a sex addiction.

The guy hangs with two different females at work.

Doesn't have a girl friend.

Acted a little weird when I touched his belly with my hand over his shirt...not under.

Acted weird when the other female pretended to grab his crotch...she's nervy.

How do you tell if a guy is gay if he hasn't proclaimed it?

2007-03-20 20:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandparents are celebrating their 60th wedding anniversery next week and i want to get them something really special. I cant do anything with photos or anything because they live in Sydney and i have no access!! Any one have any ideas?

2007-03-20 20:28:19 · 3 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Weddings

*He loves public displays of affection which bugs me to death.Why can't he just act like every guy around his gf in public?

*He keeps calling me at work just to say "hi" and "I love you".What kind of loser does that when he's going to see me in less than 6 hours?

*He keeps making big deals out of anniversaries while I don't so I always end up having to feel bad about forgetting to get him something while he goes all out.

*He's so attentive it's drives me mad especially when I'm in a bad mood and he wants me to talk about it.

*He gets me tickets to concerts and suprises me with presents occasionally without permission.If I want something,I'll ask for it.

I'm thinking of ending it.

2007-03-20 20:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 20:27:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating