Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

I love a girl - I love her with my whole heart and unconditionally. I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. However, my love does not diminish and instead it grows into something more. I have always offered my help and once I made a b'day card for her.

However, it seems that love is just not there. Last two days, we were texting each other and she told me she would help me with a school project that I am doing and she would probably meet me in the tuiton centre today. However, today, after waiting for four hours in the centre, she still does not appear.

Love does not exist, does it? Perhaps it is just an illusion made by some hopeless romantics?

(And, if you say I will love other girl later, I disagree. I can't imagine myself loving someone as much as I love this girl.)

2007-03-20 19:57:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's driving my family and I nuts. Can't kick her out. She drinks a lot and acts stupid and says hurtful things to people when under the influence. She stinks, doesn't shower but once or twice a week and worst of all she can't sing or dance, it's horrifying. I know I'm being cruel but I need a way so I'm not so damn irritated all the time. Also, she sneaks and eats our food, and she's constantly accusing us of taking her food and taking stuff out of her room when her room is locked. Also when I'm having a conversation with someone she put's in her two cents. She tries to make everything about her. She's constantly complaining about her poor life story and expects sympathy. It's driving us crazy, and any suggestions to help me deal with an annoying room mate would be helpful.

2007-03-20 19:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husbands exgf called his cell phone and he said "sorry you have the wrong number'' and he hung up. Then she calls back and he doesnt answer it, so she leaves him a message. Why didnt he tell her hes married. She lives far away. My brother-in-law gave her his number. She called his old number and my brother-in-law talked to her and seen nothing wrong w/ giving out his number. So did he react w/o thinking or was he trying to hide something? And women would you be mad?

2007-03-20 19:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I married him 5 yrs ago because he was so great to me and my then 8 yr son from previous marriage. He was never a drinker and suddenly drinks exspensive hard booze and is diabetic so he shouldnt drink at all, he stopped smoking 5 yrs ago, and now smokes and chews tabacco and lies about it hides it , I am terrified of guns because of a childhood tragedy, and now he has bought one and is online for 2 or more hrs a day looking up weapons and buying gun clips etc. He is no longer nice to my son, he treats him like a nusiance most of the time. He told me that he sees my ex husband in his house every day when he looks in my sons eyes (he looks like his dad) He told me a couple days ago that he is a grown man and what he does is none of my buisness, I feel that it is because when the cigaretts and booze kill him, it will be my buisness. We have a 3 yr old, I want to make this work but I dont feel like I love this person he has become, What should I do? Any marriage counselors out there?

2007-03-20 19:55:58 · 8 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was 4 I was molested by a older family friend (female, 11 years old ?) and it stopped maybe when I was 7. I have never told anyone and can't take it anymore I need to talk to someone. I never said anything before because she did'nt actually force me to do anything I was apart of it and would get in trouble. I didn't realise that it wasn't my fault until I was 13 and read about sexuall abuse in a pamphlet. I'm 18 now and it is still effecting me like depression, overeating, problems w/ intimacy, and trusting other females. I still am scared of telling my mom though and I don't want the other person to get in trouble because she was young too and was probably abused herself. I really want to get counseling though. Since my mom would be paying for it can a therapist tell her what I said about my abuse, how does it work?. And, how do i tellmy mom I want therapy.

2007-03-20 19:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by gloriousnina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i have this friend.
i seem to always seem to be hating her. and she'd be getting on my nerves alot. theres never a time that this doesnt happen. and if she were becoming friends with someone it'l make me depressed for some reason and then i'd feel i have to compete or someting/

i have a feeling this is jealousy but i'm thinking should i not be friends with her anymore because this is making mee sad.

i dont know how to act

2007-03-20 19:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

have u ever lost the love of ur life and never found someone to take there place couse they truely was the one i mean u had ppl sence them and it was good but it was never the same as that one magic person that u wish u coulda kept

2007-03-20 19:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by jogar8888 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 19:53:21 · 2 answers · asked by Khairiah k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

as i have said erlier i nevergot good and stable love so how can iget this?

2007-03-20 19:51:05 · 12 answers · asked by asha H 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently discovered my wife cheating and it has torn my world apart. I treated her right and I helped her every step of the way raising our kids until now. I quit, if she wasn't satisfied before she will be really unsatisfied now. I have already spent every penny I had. I quit working and quit paying the bills. I am now gonna deny paternity of our kids (which I know for a fact are mine) and just walk away. I was there and I was a good husband, I treated her right and made plenty of money. I QUIT!!!!! Now i'm gonna be what is commonly called a "deadbeat dad". I will have nothing to do with her or her children because they aren't mine ; ). I will go to jail in order to give her nothing. I don't care anymore

2007-03-20 19:50:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as i have said erlier i nevergot good and stable love so how can iget this?

2007-03-20 19:50:13 · 9 answers · asked by asha H 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I really like a girl in my class, and she sometimes comes round to my house after school. She doesn't have a bf, and i really like her so I am going to ask her out but I am too scared.

So what should I say to her?

2007-03-20 19:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by loverboy6111 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking that most of us are and that is why we are here. Something to do because we are lonely. Do you agree?

2007-03-20 19:48:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate him, i really do, he's the meanest person i've ever met and the worst part is, all of his anger is completely unprovoked. being an offspring i worry that i might grow up to be just like him and have my kids secretly hate me. what do i do? i try to avoid him but that only gets me so far, and he's the not the kind of person you can talk to or reason with.

2007-03-20 19:45:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-20 19:45:00 · 13 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know if there are any ladies out there that would date a straight guy that like to wear panties and pantyhose? I wear them and like how they feel and look so would you have a problem dating a guy that wears them?

2007-03-20 19:43:11 · 14 answers · asked by yo 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres a guy who lives far from me that i kept in contact with for 5 years. when i go out where he is we usually hang out...i sent an email to let him know im coming this, he wrote back saying yea he wants to see me 100% and to call him when i got out there. I left a message at his home,, called his cell the next day and left a message and then called the day after and just hung up...
he never back to me and never emailed me as well and its been two months, i also know for a fact hes ok..
I understand maybe he got busy or something came up but shouldnt he have returned my call or even sent an email??

Should i just not contact him again?

2007-03-20 19:43:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Singles & Dating

she is beautiful and goofy. i know she has a friendly outgoing personality. she seems to be interested in me. 2 weeks later when i see her she ask me do i remember her?she has quite a few male and female i do know she is single i asked and received her #and myspace. she has like 600 friends on her myspace so i cant use that as a tell-tell sign. what to do???????????????/Help
send her a message why she is single?

2007-03-20 19:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 19:39:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love her since i was of 8 yrs. now i am of 16yrs , and she not loves me though i not tell her but i knew this fact , and i still lov her and i am trying hard to get select in IIT-jee so may be one day i hav her . WHAT I SHOULD DO ?

2007-03-20 19:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by akashofneha 1 in Family

I'd met all sort of people. My best friend told me that I don't trust people easily. That's is why I don't have a lot of friends. I am who I am. Really hate backbitting...(talking bad stuff about someone behind their back)

2007-03-20 19:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Leaf 1 in Friends

I love her since i was of 8 yrs. now i am of 16yrs , and she not loves me though i not tell her but i knew this fact , and i still lov her and i am trying hard to get select in IIT-jee so may be one day i hav her . WHAT I SHOULD DO ?

2007-03-20 19:34:57 · 4 answers · asked by akashofneha 1 in Family

Did you ever look in your parent's photo albums and see young pictures of your parents at your age?

Ever wondered why you look exactly like your Mom or Dad?

Please explain.

2007-03-20 19:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by Agent319.007 6 in Family

i have been friends with this girl for over 5 years, latley she has slept at mine and been watching girl porn whilst i have been on the pc she says tht men come up when i no they dont and also wen we mes about she touches me in places which i do not like and then carrys on as nothing happend she likes boys to and yesterday confronted me saying tht i think she is a lez, but i no shes not fully lez im jus worried if shes bi, it mite just be because of hormones as it seems to be that way we've people my age atm.

2007-03-20 19:33:18 · 16 answers · asked by kerryyyy 2 in Friends

DON'T U GET LONELY?
EVER MISS ANY1?
WANT TO BE WITH JUST 1 PARTNER?

2007-03-20 19:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by tupac4evaa 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 17 year old guy do you think I should try myspace for getting a girlfriend?

2007-03-20 19:29:47 · 13 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

Straight up, When I with my now ex-wife. A LOT of peeps would lie to her and tell her any raunchy thing they could think of to break us up. The way we were publically or privately we were always laughing smiling and enjoying each other, (You know that good S#!T) but peoples even some I though were my friends would say anything bad about me to break us up. What is it in people nowdays that makes them HATE on those who are happy with relationships or ANYTHING???

2007-03-20 19:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by nightpanther_79 2 in Friends

2007-03-20 19:28:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my baby
my girl
why do you want to go?
i will miss you
i do not want you to leave
i know you are ready
to stand on your feet
but i have always been there
watching you
ready to pick you up when you fall
ready to scoop you up in my arms.
my eyes well with tears
so much that the keyboard is unclear
as i type the unwritten words i want to speak
but the volume
you only understand
as me being loud
so
i will be loud
i don't want you to go
i will miss you
i am not ready
though you say you are
i am not.
i sat back and watched you
through loving eyes and and a guiding heart.
i cried with your pain
and laughed with your joys
the stretch marks never ceased as you continued to help me grow
i tried to give you the space that you needed, knowing that everyone needs to find their identity.
I was more scared than you while/as you were/are discovering who you are, but I tried not to suffocate you.
Believing that learning from experience can teach us more than what people tell us. I wanted you to learn, I want you to love, i want you to live and baby I want you to continue to learn...for the rest of your life. We never know it all. And only the wise will accept wanting to learn more everyday.
May you always know this,
I will love you like no other, you were my first true love. My unconditional forever.
I LOVE YOU BABY GIRL!!!!
LOVE Mom(my)

2007-03-20 19:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by sandibum 5 in Family

what makes u think 'i cant be with this girl'

2007-03-20 19:24:50 · 17 answers · asked by tupac4evaa 3 in Singles & Dating