I love a girl - I love her with my whole heart and unconditionally. I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. However, my love does not diminish and instead it grows into something more. I have always offered my help and once I made a b'day card for her.
However, it seems that love is just not there. Last two days, we were texting each other and she told me she would help me with a school project that I am doing and she would probably meet me in the tuiton centre today. However, today, after waiting for four hours in the centre, she still does not appear.
Love does not exist, does it? Perhaps it is just an illusion made by some hopeless romantics?
(And, if you say I will love other girl later, I disagree. I can't imagine myself loving someone as much as I love this girl.)
2007-03-20 19:57:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love does exist but not in this case. maybe your right that you will never love anyone like you love her. maybe your wrong. you know that it exists, you have felt it yourself, this thing you have for her is LOVE.
I hope this helps, but remember one day soemone you love will love you back. in the mean time focus on loving her as a friend.
2007-03-20 20:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Steve, I fell in love in my junior year of high school and like you it grew and grew but it was never returned. It took me several years to get over him but i did. I have dated and have had a lot of fun. I found my true soulmate and we were so link to each other we knew what each other was going to say. I truly love him and he truly loved me.Something happen and i didn't know what was going on and this beautiful man walked out of my life and now 36 years later we have meant on line and we are back together never to let go again. It's a long distant affair but i will be flying to him in September of this year for a week.It will probably be me who will move in with him in time. I am very happy even if we only email and talk on the phone on Sundays. We will be together again soon.
A Happy Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-21 03:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shucks, just find fun things to do like throwing rocks in the pond or counting the geese flying overhead. You could climb a tree with a squirt gun and squirt people who walk under the tree. You could eat and eat and eat chocolate to get rid of your frustrations; that would take your mind off from your heart ache. Go to hospitals or nursing homes and give love to those who really need your love. You are looking for the wrong kind of love?
2007-03-21 03:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have is a crush not love, love is something more deeper than what you are saying love takes time to grow, its not when you like a girl and you think your in love thats definatly a crush.
You havent experienced love yet if your asking. So no your not in love
2. Love is real
3. you will meet a million girls before settling with your one true love
4 you will love someone else.
All the best
2007-03-21 03:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the joys of life
in trust we are blind
following forever, is love not divine
You can feel all you want,
and want all you feel,
yet it takes two to make love for real.
If you have spoke the truth to her did you say
my love in neverending for yesterday and today
In my heart are you forever, this bind for my lover
unfortunatly my friend love must go both ways
what fun! good luck with that.
2007-03-21 03:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love exists, but it is a rare thing to
a) find it in the first place
b) keep it going between two people for a long time
But yes, it exists.
Lust is easy. Love is tricky. Like is the ideal.
2007-03-21 03:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES TRUE LOVE DOES EXIST, BUT IN ORDER FOR YOU TO SAY THAT YOU KNOW THIS GIRL IS THE ONE AND YOU LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALLY, HOW DID YOU COME TO THAT CONCLUSION IF SHE DOESN'T SHOW IT BACK TO YOU?? WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, YOU LOVE THEM FOR HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL AND YOU FEEL THIS LOVE THEY GIVE YOU, YOUR CHEATING YOURSELF BY HAVING HOPES THAT SHE WILL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. IF SHE WAS THE ONE FOR YOU, SHE WOULD KNOW IT AND FEEL IT, AND SHOW YOU HOW MUCH SHE LOVES YOU. IT'S JUST NOT THERE ! YOU WILL ALWAYS LOVE HER, BUT THINK ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOU TO DESERVE TO BE LOVED THE SAME WAY BY ANOTHER.
2007-03-21 03:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by bckatcha! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Illusion by richard bach...love exsist becuz u can feel it
2007-03-21 03:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by chance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Indeed your love is unconditional and masochistic by nature.
2007-03-21 03:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, it exists.
2007-03-21 03:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋