have u ever lost the love of ur life and never found someone to take there place couse they truely was the one i mean u had ppl sence them and it was good but it was never the same as that one magic person that u wish u coulda kept
2007-03-20 19:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by jogar8888 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok yea just lost someone and i have lost others before too but it was never this bad thanks for the answers i have now but i was lookin more of like is there really "the one that got away" kinda thing i know i will get over it i have before but is there such a thing as the one
2007-03-20 20:10:09 · update #1
The problem with the one "that got away" is we tend to glamorize how it was, and even more so -- how it could have been.
The truth is, none of us know how things would turn out if we actually stayed with the one 'that got away." Honestly -- there's a really good chance the relationship would have ended a natural death anyway.
You can't look back. It's not healthy, and it's never "good" "clear" vision. If you always focus on that "one," you will never give love a chance to really come to you.
Let it go -- and love will come to you!
2007-03-28 12:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by kelannde 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're hurting emotionally. Did you recently break up with someone? If you recently broke up wiht someone who was special to you, I say it takes at least two years to get fully over them....Well, I'm 21-I've only had one boyfriend and I thought he was really special at the time (we were 17...), but eventually we broke up after dating for a year and a half. I remember the night we broke up, it literally felt like my heart had been torn in two-like all those stupid love songs say... I had never felt such emotional grief....but it's been three years now, and I can look at him and hiim look at me and we're SO unattracted to each other, it's unbelievable we ever dated for so long.
So.... I feel for you, but there's 6 billion people in the world. 3 billion are women....1 billion are probably available-there's m ore than one for you- GOod luck! :)
2007-03-21 03:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I divorced the love of my life, about 25 years ago, so I could make sure my kids had a nice home life. I still miss her, and told her so, ( on the phone, at my daughter's house, ( a few short weeks ago) It just was not a proper match. I would love to throw her onto a bed, for old time's sake,,,right in front of her husband! ( and he isn't much better than she is) and Yes,, after all this time, I am still single,,all alone.
2007-03-26 16:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is a such thing as "the one that got away".....Some people are lucky enough to keep their soul mate but others aren't...there is always that one person that you think of no matter what relationship you're in this one person haunts your dreams....you are always thinking "WHAT IF ?" but you love the one you're with and your 'one that got away' is your secret and your subconsious keeps it so.
2007-03-21 12:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I fell in Love with someone that was the best person I could've ever been with. We both went our seperate ways. I regret not being with him any longer and I think about him all the time. I dont think I will ever get over this one. Unfortunatly, I had no choice but to try to get over what happened and pick up my head and try again.
Good Luck to You!
2007-03-28 12:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by I am woman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep! Isn't it just horrible. I actually talked to mine last year quiet a bit. We have talked every so often over the years, but our timing is never right. We were trying to work something out & then all of a sudden he took his ex back cause I couldn't leave my husband at the time for a lot of reasons which I thought he understood. Plus we had other people trying to keep us apart too. I ended up telling him to never speak to me again. He got mad, but every time he sees me on the road he grins & nods & waves. It really makes me mad & hurts me all at the same time I just want to slap his face every time. I saw him at a doctors office with his womans son. He stopped & starred at me, within a foot of me, like ain't you going to speak, but he didn't say anything cause her son was with him, but if he had spoke he would have gotten his feelings hurt & I know he would have if her son hadn't been with him. Just thinking about it makes me want to cry. =( I can't talk about it anymore. I'm sorry. It's been 20 odd years for me, he was my first love & I will never forget him, but because of what he did last year I cannot ever give him another chance, because he broke me again. If he had told me he could not bear being alone I would have understood, but he didn't tell me anything just BOOM, she was back & I died inside again.=( Bye.
2007-03-21 03:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never bothered myself for only one. I want always a change but at the same time dont want to turn myself a Pro******* or a *****.
See the entertainment, if you have the capacity of it for 3 times a day.
Sandeepa
2007-03-21 02:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by sandeep k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought I had, but for me, not yet-close though. It hurts, but you move on, and for you, there is someone who is even better than the love you lost, coing your way in the future. Take care.
2007-03-21 02:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the reality of life,we lost and we gain,what matters is that you stand firm and live life with all joy and complete peace with our Lord...
2007-03-28 14:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dream to dream of someone i love like that.
the only answer i have is that it is a dream....
2007-03-21 03:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by sandibum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋