Theres a guy who lives far from me that i kept in contact with for 5 years. when i go out where he is we usually hang out...i sent an email to let him know im coming this, he wrote back saying yea he wants to see me 100% and to call him when i got out there. I left a message at his home,, called his cell the next day and left a message and then called the day after and just hung up...
he never back to me and never emailed me as well and its been two months, i also know for a fact hes ok..
I understand maybe he got busy or something came up but shouldnt he have returned my call or even sent an email??
Should i just not contact him again?
2007-03-20 19:43:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think if i email him or call again i feel kinda dumb,, i did call him 3 times, left two messages
2007-03-20 19:50:33 · update #1
I think i would let it go cause he seems to be just a jerk why would someone do that to someone i don't know
2007-03-20 19:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure he considers you a friend but he probably has a girlfriend right now and that is why you did not hear from him. i would do nothing right now because you may say the wrong thing since you are upset. i would send him a birthday card, christmas card, and just contact him during special occasions. you are both getting older and will develope relationships with the opposite sex that will take up alot of your time.
yes it was rude to not email you back, if nothing else but to say i have a gf and we are serious and i would love for you to meet her while you are here. more than likely he talks about you a little too much and she saw you as a threat.
wait until you hear from him and just be honest and tell him you thought you were good friends and it hurt that he did not make time to see you when you were there or let you know it was not a good time for him.
2007-03-20 19:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you should contact him again to maybe tell him
you have been thinking of him, and ask what happened.
I was involved with someone I met in 1999 and thought
about them a lot until 2007. We dated in nov, dec, and
january.
I emailed him several days ago. He never wrote back. Claimed to want to be friends with me and lied. He never tries to spend time with me and has got back with his ex. He used to write me telling me he wanted to see and date me until he started dating his ex.
Does the guy you are contacting have a girlfriend perhaps?
Or maybe someone he is interested in?
I am not saying to give up. Give him time maybe. Find
someone else to hang out with till he realizes what he
lost.
And yes he should have called or emailed. And I feel
the guy i used to be friends with/date should have written
me back, but i will not write him again and waste my
time. There is a new guy that wants to take me to the zoo.
Give it some time and he will probably come along or
someone new may show up.
2007-03-20 19:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by violetoriel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jett, I would give him some space and wait and see if he gets a hold of you. Something might of come up at the last minute and he couldn't make it. If he doesn't get in touch with you in the next 2 or 3 weeks i would move on. Time will tell.
A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-20 19:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - that's disrespectful - guys are just straightforward and you can just easily read them like a book - Us women are always making excuses, analyzing, thinking that "there's more than what just happen" - there's more reason to it but guys are as straight as an arrow - so what did he do? he said he wanted to see you yet he didn't follow through - Anytime a guy never follows through on what he says (doesn't do his actions), then it's not worth it. If he does want to see you, he'll do something about it. Guys can be assholes but they're not stupid. Don't worry about it :) you'll be fine.
and if he doesn't call you, then he missed out :)
2007-03-20 19:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello city,just don't bother him.he is ignoring you and later if he bumps into you he'll saY HE WAS BUSY.it is difficult to give up a 5 yr relation but,thats not your fault,you tried.stay single for sometime as this is the vulnerable period and may land up with a nother nut.sort out what you want in life and take it as a challenge and go for it,all these are waste of time and energy.
2007-03-20 20:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to forget him he should have contacted you. He could have told you if he was going to be busy before you came. I would not worry about him anymore maybe if you stop contacting him he will get in touch with you or maybe you will meet someone that makes you happy
2007-03-20 19:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely one time I put in one in all my contacts and it ought to have had some thing on it because of the fact it harm like beajesus. My eye have been given all purple and it started watering refusely. So yeah, i think you ought to assert I felt exceptionally dissed.
2016-10-02 12:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by wyckoff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't ever beg anyone for companionship. There are too many people in this world that will appreciate you, and enjoy your company. He knows how to reach you, if he wants to.
2007-03-20 19:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just Not that into you! He has your information....if he didnt use it it means you weren't a priority. Who needs that anyway? Let the next person have him!
2007-03-20 19:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋