Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

I ve noticed that Most of the white guys i ve met prefer African to African American girls. I'm wondering why this is the case.I now realize that it's not the black thing but i don't understand. I ve African friends that i hung out with, all the african girls i know & i ve met are dating & some married to successful white American men.I don't mean to sound like a B but i'm beautiful & lighter in complexion than all my african friends. I do understand that African girls are good, thats why i prefer than as my friends but my do white guys always leave me out. whenever we go out as a group of friends, the white guys after talking to us will always ask for phone numbers of the african girls & leave us the african american girls out. I mean they do talk to us but thats it. they always seem to be more interested in the african girls.some African Americans say, you can bet that whenever you see a white man with a black woman, 90% of the time the woman is african.WHY.i'm attracted to white men

2007-03-20 18:43:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 18:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all.
I am living with a controller.He moved in with me,and now I realize what is going on.He`s very manipulative,controlling,etc.
I only know of one friend he has in town ,and I want him out.
He`s a trucker so he always on the road,and I recently found out he has been making numerous phonecalls to other women telling them about how bad our relationship is.(this is his defense)
What are the ways to get his stuff out of the house,as he won`t leave on his own,as I have asked him many times.The controlling,and verbal abuse is getting worse.Another thing,he is constantly phoning his parents everyday who live in another country.I am getting sick of it all.I want him out,any advice from others?
Thank you in advance for your advice.
Sunflower

2007-03-20 18:43:15 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My family just moved to a new town. My husband works 12+ hour days, and he's NEVER here. I'm with my son (he's 2) alone every day. We are lonely, bored, and getting stir crazy. How can I make this better for us? I'm starting to get mad at my husband for not being here, eventhough I know that he just paying the bills. It's not his fault, but I'm loosing my sanity. Any advice welcome!

2007-03-20 18:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by joupedamom 1 in Family

2007-03-20 18:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi!..^_^

This question is for ppl who are 14 ~17 and who have been on a date.

Unfortunately, I live in India tho I'm not an Indian, and I'm from a christian background. Also, I'm 16. Though I know that never in my life ,i'm gonna go out on a date with a gal, I was kinda curious how young teens like me get dates out there.

Here are some questions that I longed to ask. You may add your own info too...^_^

1) Do your parents allow it?
2) How do you get a date?
3) Where do you go on a date?
4) Good dating is eventually followed by sex. Right?

Well..............these were the questions...^_^
Thanks!!

2007-03-20 18:40:57 · 1 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

We had 4 months of relationship he liked me and i liked him too,?
after that because of his ex he brokeoff with me, even i ignored him and cutoff with him for 6 months,after 6 months he contacted me said sorry and tried to make our relationship but suddenly his behavior changed , he started treating me as his friend only(there is no one in his life right now neither his ex).he told one of her friend(who is my friend as well) that he thinks things wont workout between me and him because of his family and all, his family knew about his ex and the mess she made with his family and all, he says its not possible for him to take a serious step, after hearing all this i started ignoring him and i started creating distance between us,after so long i wan online on msn yesterday, he messaged me asked me how i am and all i asked him how was he and all, he passed compliment on my pic said looking cute i like this colour you are wearing i just talked to him for minutes i said i m busy bye tc , what he wants?when what should i do? should i wait or move on?

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i dont feel like making relationship with any guy now......he hurt me twice (unintentionally).what should i do:(.......why is he behaving like this.....will he regret??

2007-03-20 18:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by Ashiii 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been dating for just over a year and living together for about 11 months. When we first got together the sex was AWESOME.we would have sex 5-10 times a week sometimes more. It started kinda slowly easing off after the first 2-3 motnhs which was totally expected but it just kept easying off to the point where we were having sex once every 2-3 weeks.i bought it up with him several times to try and figure out what we could do to make it better but he wouldnt talk about it...about 4months on i cheated on him...i hated myself for it and figured our relationship was over but when i told him he said he wanted to give it another go...oddly our sex life vastly improved but only for about 2 weeks. now we have sex once a month generally on a sunday morning.
I asked what i could do and he said he wants me to initiate things more often but ive been rejected by him so many times now that it hurts too. I love him so much and i know he loves me but our sex life sucks. What can i do?

2007-03-20 18:38:57 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my g/f to death shes my everything but i find myself fantasising about other wemon is it normal

2007-03-20 18:38:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had just got over somebody that i never thought would be so hard to forget. time has finally washed away the pain, and i'm finally back to being a happy go lucky girl. But just at this moment, he is back. I'm so confused and i really don't know what to do.

2007-03-20 18:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf broke up with me and is now back together with his ex the girl he dated before me...shes a senior and hes a junior shes going to a school in Utah and he is most likly not going to get into that school ;) do you think she will saty with him when she goes to college?

2007-03-20 18:36:44 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi J 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 18:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I just ran into this girl I use to know a few years back and want to take her out somewhere to catch up on the times we've missed since the last time we were friends (we also never dated, although i'd like to). What would be the best ideas for places to go in this type of scenario?

2007-03-20 18:34:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

s? I mean 5 years from now will those same feeling be there?

2007-03-20 18:33:15 · 3 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need help with this boy.He sits right next to me in homeroom I wanna go out with him and he already knows he likes me too but everytime i call his house they say hes not home but he really is!His mom just doesnt want me to talk to him what should i do

2007-03-20 18:32:40 · 7 answers · asked by Priscilla 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married 07-07-07. My hus-be does not speak to his side of the family. I dont want him to feel left out if I have a wedding. No one from his family will be there. I want it to be special for him as well. So I wonder should we just court-house it and call it a day?

2007-03-20 18:32:18 · 14 answers · asked by TC 1 in Weddings

I love it every time I hear his voice, I never want him to leave. He is perfect in my eyes, and I never want to not be around him. I miss him every second I don't see him, and even when we have just seen each other it doesn't seem like enough time spent together. Am I in love?

2007-03-20 18:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by Angel Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

To love someone passionately and unconditionally with minimal reciprocity. Or, to be loved passionately and unconditionally while not really being sure how you truly feel. I think lots of couples live with this emotional dichotomy. What would you choose?

2007-03-20 18:31:42 · 8 answers · asked by Cliff F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 18:30:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need help with this boy.He sits right next to me in homeroom I wanna go out with him and he already knows he likes me too but everytime i call his house they say hes not home but he really is!His mom just doesnt want me to talk to him what should i do

2007-03-20 18:30:03 · 2 answers · asked by Priscilla 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a woman who is everything I want. She loves me, but is in love with another man of 4 yrs. We have been together for 7 months. During this time, she has gone back and forth from him to me, and this hurts me. She admits this is wrong and hurting all of us, yet she can't decide to stay with 1 of us and lose the other. I tell her to stay away unless she is done with him forever. But she comes back and I love her so much, I can't resist her. So we are together for awhile, then she splits and goes back to him. This hurts me dearly everytime. But I love her so much, I hope there is a chance she will change.She tells me she thinks she may be falling in love with me but then tells him she wants to work on their relationship. I know both of us men are dumb for taking her back, but I am in love with her and want her as mine forever. What do I do? She was married for 14 yrs happily when her husband cheated on her.

2007-03-20 18:30:00 · 2 answers · asked by douglas H 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend when i was in italy for the first time. It was love at first sight. We kissed before we even talked and two days later I moved into his apt for the remaining month there. In the next 11 months we spent 3 months together (me there twice and he came to the us once). Then I moved there and we spent the next six months together. In that time we had communication problems, becuase he knew some english and i knew no italian, we were always learning. Other than that things were okay but he didnt encourage me to speak italian and didnt help me with independant life outside of the relationship and apt. I met friends and things were great until one day we were fighting and he slapped me across the face. I slapped him back and went back to the US. Its been 1 month, hes been writing messages saying he wants to get me a job and buy me a ticket back. he admits his mistakes completely saying he never did that before or will again. I love him very much. should i go back?

2007-03-20 18:29:18 · 5 answers · asked by fabulous13 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for 7 years but lately he's been a different kind of man. I don't trust him (he's been emailing a female coworker back and forth and I just found out about it). He yells and cusses at me all the time. He used to be a lot nicer to our 2 small kids (ages 5 and 3). I stay home with the kids while he works. He's only off a couple of nights a week and when he's off, he would rather be out with his co-workers at their little get togethers (the ones that our "ENTIRE" family used to be invited to).

I guess the final question is: WHEN DO I WASH MY HANDS AND CALL IT QUITS OVER HERE??? I DON'T WANT TO FEEL LIKE THE FOOL LATER IF HE DECIDES HE'S LEAVING US.

. . . . . . Advice folks, please!

2007-03-20 18:29:17 · 15 answers · asked by tdubya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

her not making me maid of honor is very understandable and acceptable, but why would she not make me bridesmaid?
we have been so close. we have cried in each other's arms. we share our problems, joys and grieves with each other...
and what makes me feel even weirder is she chose one of the girls from bridegroom's family to be one of the bridesmaids.
That doesnt even sound fair... lol
I know I am acting all immature, but i have been really close to both the bride and the bridegroom... I feel weird just being a guest.
I was almost considering not going to her wedding, but then I am not sure.

I'm single and so are the other bridesmaids she chose.
Trust me, I really want to be there for my girl, but it's her bridesmaids other than the groom's family member are reallyyy close friends with me. but they would still rub it in...
see where i am coming from? I dont want to face her bridesmaids there.....

2007-03-20 18:29:07 · 5 answers · asked by rose 1 in Friends

I ve noticed that Most of the white guys i ve met prefer African to African American girls. I'm wondering why this is the case.I now realize that it's not the black thing but i don't understand. I ve African friends that i hung out with, all the african girls i know & i ve met are dating & some married to successful white American men.I don't mean to sound like a B but i'm beautiful & lighter in complexion than all my african friends. I do understand that African girls are good, thats why i prefer than as my friends but my do white guys always leave me out. whenever we go out as a group of friends, the white guys after talking to us will always ask for phone numbers of the african girls & leave us the african american girls out. I mean they do talk to us but thats it. they always seem to be more interested in the african girls.some African Americans say, you can bet that whenever you see a white man with a black woman, 90% of the time the woman is african.WHY.i'm attracted to white men

2007-03-20 18:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex said we should hook up sometime. What did he want? A booty call or just meeting up?

2007-03-20 18:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 18:27:18 · 14 answers · asked by kunu 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 18:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by vengefulsith 1 in Friends

what should i do? should I make it easy on him and end the relationship because he seem to want me and the other/s too. I also thinnk he is afraid of hurting me so probablly feels stuck with someone he does not really love

2007-03-20 18:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP first day of spring

2007-03-20 18:26:44 · 2 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Singles & Dating