i love my g/f to death shes my everything but i find myself fantasising about other wemon is it normal
2007-03-20 18:38:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ansel, don't restrict yourself to a serious relationship at the age of 16. You have a long life ahead of you with many other things and activities to experience. I understand that you are dating a girl now, but it is really rare that early relationships weather all the storms that your lives will put you through. It's perfectly normal to fantasize about other women. By all means, go for it. It's all a part of being a young man.
2007-03-20 21:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you are 16 it is so natural for you to think of other women. Its so normal, you may love her, but you look and its ok if you look as long as it goes not further than looking if you have a g/f. You are just curious about other women and if they look the same or are prettier or whatever. If you look and dont touch you are ok if you want to touch you are in trouble and should break it off with g/f and do what you want, for a while. then if you still want her because you realise stuff about life then go for it, but you have to be prepared for rejection if its later on or years later. Follow your heart and make a decision but 16 is time to enjoy your youth and make decisions later, protect yourself and be happy cause nobody else cares if your happy but you. Take care Heather
2007-03-20 18:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, Yeah thats normal. Its like watching porn, you usually just picture yourself with whatever girl is in the tape. I sometime even fantasize about really hot guys, and Im sure my b/f has done the same. but would never ever act on it, My b/f means alot to me. Just dont go past fantasizing and its fine. Oh and I wouldn't tell her either lol.
2007-03-20 18:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Neek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probibally wont be with that girl forever, not saying that it can't happen, but it usually doesn't at your age. Don't worry about it. Don't act on your feelings, but just realize that we have instincts like animals, and to think of the opposite sex is normal. The thing that makes us humans is our ability to reason. We can with hold our instinct in the interest of the opposite sex. Just don't worry too much about it. Maybe one day you will be single, and you can explore your fantisies in the open.
2007-03-20 18:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup you are soooo normal. It is called being a kid and not being ready to be serious. If you care for her then you may serious need to get your priorties straight. Good lord boy get out there and experience life and people.........by doing this you are letting her do the same.
2007-03-20 18:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of courseit is normel my last relationship all i did was think of other girls im only 16 as well
2007-03-20 19:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Beefy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol yea, obviously you're always gonna think about other girls. Just don't act on it and you're all set.
2007-03-20 18:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by xdivineknightx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, at 16, I'd worry if I didn't do that
2007-03-20 18:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by crazyromo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah it's normal... maybe not healthy but it is normal
2007-03-20 18:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would worry if you didn't
2007-03-20 18:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by rock on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋