WHITE MEN ONLY PLEASE!!!!! i'm wondering why this is the case and why not us..No Stupid or racists answers

Question

I ve noticed that Most of the white guys i ve met prefer African to African American girls. I'm wondering why this is the case.I now realize that it's not the black thing but i don't understand. I ve African friends that i hung out with, all the african girls i know & i ve met are dating & some married to successful white American men.I don't mean to sound like a B but i'm beautiful & lighter in complexion than all my african friends. I do understand that African girls are good, thats why i prefer than as my friends but my do white guys always leave me out. whenever we go out as a group of friends, the white guys after talking to us will always ask for phone numbers of the african girls & leave us the african american girls out. I mean they do talk to us but thats it. they always seem to be more interested in the african girls.some African Americans say, you can bet that whenever you see a white man with a black woman, 90% of the time the woman is african.WHY.i'm attracted to white men

Please do not misunderstand me, I’m not saying my African friends are ugly or that they are black as charcoal. I actually think they are pretty; they are not as dark as some Africans. I’m also not saying that me being lighter makes me better. I have learned a lot from them, like they do not go to the usual black dance clubs that most of us African American go to. They prefer to go to lounges where most of the men there are educated and are successful or in a good career. Why can’t I attract an educated white guy as my African friends do? I have had white guys approach me but they have been black wannabes that dress and act like K Fed (Britney Spears husband). I do not want that kind of a white guy. I’m in college. Since I started hanging out with these girls, I realized that white guys are not as racist as people may want us to believe. Is there something that you white guys don’t like about African American girls. I need serious answers only please!!!. I do not want to hear ****

I'm talking to or about the white men that date black women. I do not want to hear from some1 telling me to “love my own race” I can’t help who I’m attracted to.

Is it the accent? I ve been introduced to the sophisticated parties & dinners by these girls because of the men they date. I don’t dress “ghetto” any more because my friends told me it’s a turn off for these guys.but still they don’t date me & my other two African American girls. I can’t help but be jealousy sometimes of my friends..What am I doing wrong…what is it?Before i was never attracted to white because i didn't like what i saw but now i ve been introduced to a high class of white guys that look good, educated with great careers that i didn't even know they existed but on T.V. I like the way they carry themselves and how they treat my friends. I don't really sound ghetto. I like their lifestyle,something about these guys sets them apart from the COMMON white guy.I like what & i want one.

Answer 1

Many African American women have really poor attitudes.

Answer 2

I am sorry however I needed to reply your query although I am now not a white man.... I feel it's the institution you run with and thats why it sort of feels to be the bulk for your global. Everyone has a option in a expertise mate and possibly the persons you're round have a tendency to decide upon African American ladies. You cannot generalize any race so that you could say such a lot white men decide upon Black ladies is an opinion. Some might decide upon Latinas, Asians, Caucasians or some other race of individual. (despite the fact that in case your fundamental standards for a mate is race you're proscribing the probabilities for your self) ahhhhhhh.... simply re-learn the query!!!! African versus African American! I inspiration you have been white and have been thinking about why they prefered your African American peers! My prior reply nonetheless applies however now I need to upload that it possibly the way in which the African ladies have been raised that makes their persona, values, man or woman or a different trait stand out to them? Good success discovering your guy!

Answer 3

I think you have to look at the differences between you and your African friends. I understand the whole "ghetto" thing. I am Black and not honey light but i get much more attention off White men than others although I dont act or sound like ther "ghetto" people(t ypical wise i mean).

In the end of the day I feel the reason you mentioned your skin colour was because it probably gets you far with Black men. In my experience White guys either love very ethnic, educated proud women, or Halle Berry crossover type who can blend in White places (Although guys are all diff to some extent).
If you say you used to be "ghetto" it doesnt make much difference because its a learned thing and is much more than clothes and hair. Black youth ghetto subculture has ways of walking, talking, looking at people to challenge authority usually. Theyll be able to see it from a mile off. If they are well educated and successful as you say they wont like certain things.

Answer 4

I think some do it for attention, they will get way more attention for dating an african than an african american- Also look at the fashion industry, those white designers and photographers crave after the really dark native african women, you rarely see lightskinned black women or any other shade of black girls walking the runway- It looks like you African American women have competition with your Native African counterparts......

Answer 5

lol. someone is angry. since this is a non-racist zone. listen african american women are strong women. they have bodies that are very attractive and they are the only women that can make any color babies. some white men like to go outside their race maybe because their tired. they see what their race standards are and don't really like them. it could be a big number of reasons why a man in gerenal goes to another race. it's not just white men it's every man. it's just being human sweet heart. don't take it personal.

Answer 6

I am a white male and I can tell you that your situation is a rare occurrence since this is the first I've heard of it. My guess is that they are just exploring out of their own race and that is perfectly normal. Some white males prefer other races such as Asian or Mediterranean. They may not like you simply because you are not as attractive to them as the others are. I highly doubt it is a skin color case. If anything, stop hanging out as a group and try to embark on your own journey. I'm absolutely sure there are millions of guys out there for you.

Answer 7

You obviously sound way too good for the guys you're looking for. White men that respect themselves will go with white girls simply because the vast majority of american african girls are unfortunately the "ghetto" type. If they so choose to go black, it's only because they look for some drama or a chick to show off at a party, that's it. Either way don't bother, grow a self-esteem, cut their crap and walk away. You'll end up finding someone fun that's worthy of you.

Answer 8

I've found myself on occasion wanting to spend time with a black woman,although I really don't know the reason why.Maybe it's just wanting to experience something new

Answer 9

Since it's not physical, and it's not a simple-minded racist problem, then it has to be cultural prejudice.

Possibly you need to clamp down on one more stereotypical BEHAVIORS -- accent, diction, attitude, clothing, whatever.

Answer 10

Obviously, the chicks from Kenya and such are using tribal voodoo on us white guys. That and the wicked BJ's.