Hi all.
I am living with a controller.He moved in with me,and now I realize what is going on.He`s very manipulative,controlling,etc.
I only know of one friend he has in town ,and I want him out.
He`s a trucker so he always on the road,and I recently found out he has been making numerous phonecalls to other women telling them about how bad our relationship is.(this is his defense)
What are the ways to get his stuff out of the house,as he won`t leave on his own,as I have asked him many times.The controlling,and verbal abuse is getting worse.Another thing,he is constantly phoning his parents everyday who live in another country.I am getting sick of it all.I want him out,any advice from others?
Thank you in advance for your advice.
Sunflower
2007-03-20 18:43:15 · 7 answers · asked by sunflower2052002 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it look like you need to call the cops. see what they can do for you. that not good for you. try to get out of that soon. because gods know what could happen if you don't. don't Waite to long girl do what you have to do it might not be easy but try. good luck
2007-03-20 18:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by shyprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he leaves for a roadtrip you need to round up every friend and relative you have and pack it all up, put it in a storage. Change the locks on the doors and just for good measures get a restraing order.
2007-03-21 02:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Believe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he leaves, pack all his stuff in boxes and leave beside the front door. Call & warn a peace office of your plans and concerns for when he returns. When he returns, call peace officer right away if he wont leave at once. Change your locks!
Or , leave his stuff outside then change the locks.
2007-03-21 13:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by gshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order while he's out of town then gather his stuff, get it out and change the locks. Let your neighbors know about the restraining order and what he and his vehicle look like.Show them a picture so they know for sure. Cover all the bases you can and let the local police know too.
2007-03-21 02:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either go to or call your local law enforcement , sheriffs if your out of the city limits , police if your in the city limits & explain the situation & ask them what your options are in this situation. They will know more about the laws in your area.
2007-03-21 02:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him out. If he is living with you with your original permission, rather than pursuant to some sort of rental agreement, you can change the locks and get a no-contact order. Do it NOW.
2007-03-21 01:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you have a new boyfriend and he wants to move in. That or do something to make him want to leave...ie stop cleaning, leave gross things on the bathroom floor, freak him out.
2007-03-21 01:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by fabulous13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋