What do I do? I am in love, she only loves me (and hurts me).?

Question

I am in love with a woman who is everything I want. She loves me, but is in love with another man of 4 yrs. We have been together for 7 months. During this time, she has gone back and forth from him to me, and this hurts me. She admits this is wrong and hurting all of us, yet she can't decide to stay with 1 of us and lose the other. I tell her to stay away unless she is done with him forever. But she comes back and I love her so much, I can't resist her. So we are together for awhile, then she splits and goes back to him. This hurts me dearly everytime. But I love her so much, I hope there is a chance she will change.She tells me she thinks she may be falling in love with me but then tells him she wants to work on their relationship. I know both of us men are dumb for taking her back, but I am in love with her and want her as mine forever. What do I do? She was married for 14 yrs happily when her husband cheated on her.

Answer 1

what you do is tell her that you are not going to play the game
any more it all about respect if she truly want to be with you
then your actions should show it, it sound like she play both
side, she back and forth with you because you are allowed
he to play you. time to live her along she not the one for you
and if she with this man for 4 years then why the nonsesense
you can do so much better then women, time to kick her
tot he curb like yesterday. let go to the to other man and
let him deal with the bull crap .AND THAT WHAT IT IS
BULL.

Answer 2

If she really loves you. she won't bear the thought being with somebody she doesn' love than with you. guess she's only playing safe. if you dump her, then she have that guy. but if that guy dump her then she have you. there is no point of loving two person at the same time. you only have one heart. and you can't serve two masters at the same time, right?