Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

There is a girl in my class. We only speak in class, but not outside it yet. The class has been for 4 weeks only so far, and it ends in June.

I want to get to know her. She is very nice, but very conservative and shy.

We are both in our mid-twenties.

How can I get to know her. She is conservative and Catholic, but she is nice.

Anyways I can ask her out to go somewhere without making it seem like I'm interested?

2007-03-20 19:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the situation: my boyfriend is coming to visit me in a few weeks and we're going to visit some of his relatives who reside where I do. Well, about 17 years ago, I messed around with his aunt's stepson at a party who at that time was a married man and I didn't know it. My boyfriend let me know from jump that my past is my past and he wouldn't judge me from that - however, I'm not sure how he would handle that. I really want this relationship to work. He, like most people, is big on honesty and I'm just praying that this doesn't get out. Sooo, should I just bring it up and explain to him what happened, or just simply say nothing and if someone in the family says something, then explain? I don't like the idea of withholding anything from him, but I also feel that some things should just remain untold being that it was so many years ago and I was a teen. Also, he doesn't know that I'm aware know that he's associated with this guy.

I would appreciate your opinions

2007-03-20 19:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by answersbyme 1 in Singles & Dating

and why?:)

2007-03-20 19:21:49 · 13 answers · asked by khatzzz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-20 19:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since me and my friends hit high school things changed of course. I got my BF and they got theirs. but they have been getting caught up in drinking and sex. i know thats bad impressions on me. so do i jus ditch them and hang out with my BF now? I jus dont want to end up like them. I need help so what do i do? PLZ give me sum answers!

2007-03-20 19:20:46 · 12 answers · asked by Luvin' life! 1 in Friends

My fiance and I were passionate night before last now I am still hungry for more and he obviously isn't? This always seems to happen after we have a great night. It's not like he does all of the work either.

2007-03-20 19:19:22 · 20 answers · asked by newyorktilson 3 in Singles & Dating

If you are about to die in few minutes and you are with your wife/husband or girfriend/boyfriend and you want to die peacefully with no secrets left behind, what would you tell her/him to lift the burden you've been carrying yor whole life or for sometime?

2007-03-20 19:19:19 · 12 answers · asked by desiredKay 2 in Friends

2007-03-20 19:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you choose?
1. Steady and solid -- Advancing in a steady pace, take risks with moderation.

2. Highly Risk taker -- ex. Inventor, follow gut instinct type, in term of success - can go extremely high or down extremely low a lot faster than personality #1.

Assumming that both have EQUAL strong characters and moral values.

2007-03-20 19:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even though they don't love you or is it best to just stop and forget them please help

2007-03-20 19:17:37 · 6 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been having sex with my boyfriend for over five months, and because havent fallen in love yet (he "doesnt know what it means"), sometimes i feel bad about having sex with him. this week i tried not having sex to see how i feel about the depth of our relationship, and i felt as if our relationship was inadequate and empty as i started to distance myself from him. this could be because i was simply acting a bit distant. mabe the emptiness was imagined while i spent the week doubting him and us. can anyone help sort my feelings about sex and our relationship and its status of "not in love, but care for eachother a ton" ??

2007-03-20 19:17:08 · 24 answers · asked by dancer87 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i divorced their father and have no way of knowing who will give my kids their share. my ex will not disclose any info to me because he wants to keep our children's share secretly

2007-03-20 19:16:43 · 4 answers · asked by skieshark13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If they like to go out with the girls/guys. Do find that acceptable? How many times a week is that acceptable? How late would you feel comfortable letting them stay out with out calling them or what time do you think they should be home if you live together. If you show them nothing but love and are always trying to take them out or buy them nice things when you are together, would you feel comfortable letting the other person you live with stay out till the early morning and not worry about it?

2007-03-20 19:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by spiritius4 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 19:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months we see eachother every day. I've spent time with him countless times all day. I'm pretty much in love with him (no it's not lust ive been in lust before and it's a completely different feeling) I'm 18 and he's a few months away from turning 18. I know him very very well from being with him all the time. We have had our ups and downs which have never been really bad downs. We want to move in together at the end of the month. I know he is really clean so i know that being lazy or not cleaning will not be a problem. I know things that I do that annoy him and he knows things that annoy me. I think overall we know eachother very well. SOME of my family thinks it's a bad idea saying we don't know eachother good enough and whatnot but i look at it this way, it's better to do it now then wait and find out it doesn't work and get hurt even more. what do you think?

2007-03-20 19:11:13 · 16 answers · asked by 10.95 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 19:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by shelli 1 in Friends

we only have a small space to write andyes i am talking college writing and have 4.0 in the class try reading it better all the information is there that is needed i have an ex who is currently living w/ his brother and no job since he lost it after rec papers on support modification now my 14 year old son wants to live with them since they promising him things that my new husband and i cannot buy for him like a car at 16 i need to know is that since i go to school and only work part time is that going to go against me ex is also behind on child support yes i have a lawyer but thought that some nice people would be able to let me know if they have also gone through this told ex husband that he was going to have to sue me for custody before i let child live with a homeless man and one that is also unemployed

2007-03-20 19:10:40 · 5 answers · asked by JENNIFER H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Ben goes to college with me.I havent talked to him for a year, we just say hi. he lives off campus so I just see him here and there.One day he text me drunk saying hey what are u doing and I said nothing.then he said he wanted to hang out and I was so willin to hang out with him cause I do like him. So I asked him why he only text me drunk and he was saying he doesnt b/c to me it's annoyin that he can text me drunk but not sober.Then he was like u wouldnt want this.u cant handle this.u wouldnt have the guts.I was confused.he was like Im sitting here what have u done and he said u want me come get me,opportunity to show me what u got.I told him I have nothing to prove to him so he was like ok suit yourself.ANDTHEN he ims me later that night,so I asked em what do u really want from me maybe u got me confused with some other girl.and he was like no i didnt.u have no clue.so i said u send me mixed signals, he said i wasclear.then he says it wouldnt work, ur not like me.

2007-03-20 19:10:34 · 15 answers · asked by unsure 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 19:10:30 · 1 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

iam male from delhi but attracted towards female feet and footwears since last so many years,i think i have a fetish for female feet and footwears

2007-03-20 19:10:25 · 12 answers · asked by shoeslaveh 1 in Singles & Dating

my self and a friend i've known for years have recently begun getting romantically involved while simultaneously planning to be roomates.

right now, we live about 100 miles apart, and neither of us have a car, so seeign each other is difficult. additionally, she wants to go to a college near my home, as well as work in my same office, and i have a room for rent. because of these factors, we've been talking about her renting my room. she would be able to get the job she wants, go to the school she wants, etc, and we'd also be able to see eachother alot more.

however, given our increasing romantic interest in one another, i've got some concerns. namely all the problems roomates can have, say over cleanliness, personal space, money, etc, complicated by the romantic feelings. not to mention what the heck happens if we fight or wors,e break up.

so, what are your thoughts people?

2007-03-20 19:09:42 · 7 answers · asked by Arklan 1 in Singles & Dating

i lust for a bunch of attractive men. i have never cheated. but do imagine it from time to time. i don't want to cheat, but all these lustings for attractive males makes me nervouse that i may cave under temptation, should it arise.

please understand that i turely love my husband.

2007-03-20 19:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by laura t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 19:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 19:08:31 · 6 answers · asked by Nikita 1 in Friends

I'm afraid to date because from what I hear every guy out there expects sex before marriage. I really hope that's not true because I won't do it. I think it's reasonable and fair that he waits if he is going to date me. I mean, why is premarital sex so important to him if he'll eventually get it anyway and in the mean time can just touch himself if he needs release? Why can't people be more respectful and tolerant?

2007-03-20 19:07:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 19:07:47 · 18 answers · asked by Shahid M 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my little sisters dog got ran over by a car and my friend came over and saw the dog and me and my family ran outside and started crying....it was really sad....but it had the biggets impact on my younger sister whose 11 so im wondering how do i help her cope??

2007-03-20 19:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 28 year old maried woman, my husband is mostly on tours and i also work,due to loneliness i got close to a man in our neighbourhood and we fing each other in a emotional bonding,wedo not look for sexual peasures ,but we feel for each other,he is a widower and decent man,to be frank we love each other,is this also infidelity or just pure platonic love.we both need companionship.

2007-03-20 19:07:10 · 20 answers · asked by suchissunny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we talk a lot and i think she might like me too
also we are both 13
she wasnt at school on monday
today we had field trip and i saw her once and she looked away quickly but not like she was shy
after we watched a movie and i sat right behind her and she knew and she didnt wanna talk
then after school i caught up with her and got her to talk a little by asking where she was on monday
I NEED ADVICE!

2007-03-20 19:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Chris32 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 19:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by deeznuttz 1 in Singles & Dating