My friend Ben goes to college with me.I havent talked to him for a year, we just say hi. he lives off campus so I just see him here and there.One day he text me drunk saying hey what are u doing and I said nothing.then he said he wanted to hang out and I was so willin to hang out with him cause I do like him. So I asked him why he only text me drunk and he was saying he doesnt b/c to me it's annoyin that he can text me drunk but not sober.Then he was like u wouldnt want this.u cant handle this.u wouldnt have the guts.I was confused.he was like Im sitting here what have u done and he said u want me come get me,opportunity to show me what u got.I told him I have nothing to prove to him so he was like ok suit yourself.ANDTHEN he ims me later that night,so I asked em what do u really want from me maybe u got me confused with some other girl.and he was like no i didnt.u have no clue.so i said u send me mixed signals, he said i wasclear.then he says it wouldnt work, ur not like me.
2007-03-20 19:10:34 · 15 answers · asked by unsure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but why would he text me outta nowhere? he know i'm not a **** thats gonna have sex with him. and then he says it wont work...i'm not like u..what won't work? when he said that it made it seem like he didn't want sex. b/c if he wanted some booty, why do I have to be like him?
2007-03-21 18:22:25 · update #1
He can't put it much plainer.
Better find another guy that can appreciate you for who you are.
2007-03-20 19:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a chancer and a user... don't even give him the time of day, have some self respect and dignity .... ignore him, why lower your standards because he can only text you when he is drunk, what sort of person is that?
2007-03-20 20:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Warmnjuicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you get for hooking up with a drunk idiot! What made you think it would be anything other thatn what it was. He's an idiot! Learn from this! All he wanted was you butt naked and willing, that's it! and YOU KNEW IT! If there was ever a doubt, just replay how he wanted you to "come get it if you want it". There is absolutely nothing left to be assumed. Trust your instincts next time, OK?
2007-03-20 19:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are worth so much more then a booty call girl better yet kick him to the curb. or when he calls you drunk say yea come around put your head phones on and go to sleep.
2007-03-20 20:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by MissTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only wants the sex. Anyone who approaches you drunk only wants sex and that's why there are so many one night stands in night clubs. It could develop into more later but I wouldn't bother risking it if I was you. The guy sounds like a loser.
2007-03-20 19:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by SR13 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
to be honest, i'd be confused too. he obviously isn't very mature, and you're really best to move on and forget this boy, and find friends that communicate themselves a bit better
2007-03-20 22:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your like soooo not going to believe this like but I think like he may like just want to have sex like with you like when hes drunk as your like a minger when he is sober like?
Tally Like Ho!!!!!
2007-03-20 21:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds like to me that he gets drunk, gets horny so he fancy having s*ex
2007-03-20 19:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me he only wanted to have 'some' - ignore him and maintain 'hi' only
2007-03-20 20:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by Shahid M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously.....ignore him.... u dont want to be used and loose ur self respect
2007-03-20 19:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋