My fiance and I were passionate night before last now I am still hungry for more and he obviously isn't? This always seems to happen after we have a great night. It's not like he does all of the work either.
2007-03-20 19:19:22 · 20 answers · asked by newyorktilson 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The stress part could be true. He has the flu and just started a new job yesterday after 10 years on the same job.
2007-03-20 19:40:02 · update #1
Perhaps his sex drive is not as intense as yours... which would be a good topic of discussion for the both of you to have, especially before you get married.
If frequent, passionate love making is a very important part of the relationship for you, and his drive is less than yours, there is little you can do about it, as it is not that he doesn't want you, he is just not as hungry as you.
And to anwser the first question, why I am on answers when i "should" be making love... you are looking for help and the should part is not the same as wanting to be making love.
Does he refuse you when you approach him the next day or two?
Statistically, the average married couple has sex three times per week, and that usually declines over time. It have more to do with a deepening of the relationship, increased stress of marriage and work life, kids etc. That is not a bad thing, it just is.
So have a nice chat with him after the next passionate encounter, and make extra efforts to move him to bliss, and before he goes to sleep, comment on how much you like making love to him, and how close it makes you feel, you like that feeling and want more of it... that sort of thing... He will be less likely to get defensive as you have worn him out and satisified him and you may learn some interesting information. Good luck.
2007-03-20 19:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Robert S. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah thats is crappy. whats wrong with him? usually its the guys that are begging for more. maybe there is something going on in his life that your not aware of. it could be stress, diet, his current mental health. if he drinks alot to that can put a damper on his sex drive. speak to him about it, maybe its a little more then him just not being horny. if it is just him being boring though..maybe he needs to see a dr and get him on a magic blue pill :) Good Luck. if all else fails though go seak out your vibrator.
2007-03-21 02:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by SubbYMonKeY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps instead of hanging out on Yahoo! answers, you should pour him a double Scotch and put on some soft music.
2007-03-21 02:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i don't think that it is not that he doesn't want you, but the intensity of waiting every once and while appeals to him. don't let it get to redundant and routine. let there be nights of anticipation and get him good tomorrow
2007-03-21 02:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by stella.cella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have different sexual appetites. Better acknowledge this now before you get married.
2007-03-21 02:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by eleven 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm ready to lay it down on you...just gimme the time and place.....I'll be gently and not break your back badly....
2007-03-21 02:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like a real lame case to me!. i go for it every chance there is -guess thats just how i am.
2007-03-21 02:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put on some high heals.
2007-03-21 02:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget Viagra get some cialis it's 36 hours of fun!!!! it does work!
2007-03-21 02:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Give him some viagra, he won't leave you alone
2007-03-21 02:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋