2007-03-20 19:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by shelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's a Dead End Road -- For someone and not worth it
2007-03-20 19:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I am making the assumption that he is married to one of the friends... if not, then definately steer clear of the situation
He has made his choice, and if he wants both of you and he isn't married to either of you, that makes for some very intersting fantasies.
Time and time again when married couples bring in a third person, it ends badly, often in divorce. There are very few truly open marriages, or couples that swap. If this couple is, then you might consider talking with your friend about it he/she is aware of the attraction the married person has for the both of you. If they don't then stay away.
It will ruin your long term friendship, the marriage will suffer... but there is no harm in thinking about it... I would think you would be flattered or tempted, or you wouldn't have asked the question in the way that you did. So keep with the fantasy, and the friendship.
2007-03-21 02:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they wanted each other for yrs. how in the heck did one of them get married? A Cheater is a cheater.
2007-03-21 02:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen "My Best Friend's Wedding" with Julia Roberts. This might be your movie. Watch it!!!
2007-03-21 02:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by that one gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does this friend want the husband and wife -"both of u"??
2007-03-21 02:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twisted. Leave it alone. It sounds close to incest.
2007-03-21 02:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋