Since me and my friends hit high school things changed of course. I got my BF and they got theirs. but they have been getting caught up in drinking and sex. i know thats bad impressions on me. so do i jus ditch them and hang out with my BF now? I jus dont want to end up like them. I need help so what do i do? PLZ give me sum answers!
2007-03-20 19:20:46 · 12 answers · asked by Luvin' life! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You dont have to do what they do! You are your own person! If you see that there behavior is questionable and you've been raised better than that, stick to your morals. Be a leader, not a follower. Believe me, there will be consequences sooner or later to their actions. Be it a pregnancy, an STD, or over indulging in alcohol. All of it takes a toll in the long run. While you'll still be looking fabulous, they'll be all run down and old lookin" by the time they're 30. Just ask someone, they'll tell you!
2007-03-20 19:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hang out with your BF or another group of friends. The behavior of your other friends can really influence you. If you know that you'll get caught up with them in a bad way, then just stay away. You can say hi to them once in a while but make them know that you don't want to be apart of what they're into. It's best if you hang out with ppl who are better suited and will lead a better future.
2007-03-21 02:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what you're doing. Ditch them. You don't want to be like that in high school. One of my friends is like that.. and we are 25!! All she does is drink, party and have sex.. It's taking it's toll. The worst thing people come up to me and ask "are you [so-n-so's] friend? Let me have her number. I hear she's a sk@nk" How embarrassing for me and for her. I know it sounds lame, but stay in school and stay with your bf if he's cool.
2007-03-21 02:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nemesista 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change alot during high school. Don't feel pressured to do the things your 'friends' do just so they will still be your friends. If you dont agree with underage drinking and aren't ready to be sexually active then don't do it! Making new friends happens at any age so I'm sure you can find some new friends
2007-03-21 02:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to face peer pressure all through high school. You are your own person and can make your own decisions, as much as it may be hard if you are not comfortable then leave them be and (given your BF supports you in your decisions) find new friends. i did the same things and found 3 friends who helped me through schoola nd i care about lots.
2007-03-21 02:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should seperate yourself from them OR just hang out with them when they're not doing that. But if you do leave them, try to make some new friends so your BF isn't the only one you've got!
2007-03-21 02:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by regina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If teenage kids were not into drinking and sex, then I would be worried. It is normal, but if that's not your thing, find another group of people to go out with.
2007-03-21 02:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being their friend is accepting what they do and understanding that you are a different person. who cares about what other people think (drinking and sex), if they support you remain their friend, but if they let you down, that may be when it is time to move on. you don't have to become anyone that you don't want to
2007-03-21 02:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by stella.cella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whew! if i ended up like my friends not so sure i would be on here, if you are easily influenced by your friends then yes get some new ones. or hang out more with your bf, until they get it out of their system.
2007-03-21 02:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave in and stayed with my friends. I ended up on skid row for many years. Enough Said.
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2007-03-21 02:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by aguyinthewoods 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋