My husbands exgf called his cell phone and he said "sorry you have the wrong number'' and he hung up. Then she calls back and he doesnt answer it, so she leaves him a message. Why didnt he tell her hes married. She lives far away. My brother-in-law gave her his number. She called his old number and my brother-in-law talked to her and seen nothing wrong w/ giving out his number. So did he react w/o thinking or was he trying to hide something? And women would you be mad?
2007-03-20 19:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-21 10:16:33 · update #1
well, yes i would. to my opinion he should have said he is married and she shouldn't call him again. and why the hell his brother didn't say that? what kind of brother is he? but on the other hand well, people usually don't like to tell other people off. once i was in night club and there was this polite intelligent guy hanging around me. i am married. my husband way out of this guy's league (way higher i mean) so i wouldn't even want to have a fling with this guy even if i wanted a fling. but he was so polite i really didn't have guts to tell him get lost. so i was stuck all evening talking with him. just because i didn't want to hirt his feelings. was it dumb? yes it was. i still can't understand why the heck didn't i tell him i was married and stuff. i swear i wasn't planning anything with him. so i suggest u let it go this time but u can just nicely ask your husband why didn't he tell her he is married now. and also inform him u would appreciate that next time he would. don't be mad yet
2007-03-20 20:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. I would be mad at the brother in law for giving out the number. Is there some unresolved business there? Why does she need to talk to him? He's married now. Everything that they had is in the past and that is where it should stay. I know someone might say that people remain friends after a break up, but he's not being honest. If that were the case she would know about you and respect your marriage.
2007-03-21 03:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well brother in law should have said why dont you give me your number and i will see if he wants it . And by your husband saying wrong number it might have just been a moment where he didn't have time to think or know quite what to say. I wouldn't really worry about it unless he calls her back, unless its to say I'm happy and I'm married hope you have a good life and i wish you the best, but i would prefer not to speak with you again.
2007-03-21 03:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married man. Please understand that sometimes our past lives are something that we try very hard to disconnect ourselves from. We, especially men, are at times split or rather divided in our thoughts and emotions. Please dont misunderstand me and think that your husband does not love you. He married you, he decided that you are the girl that he will wake up every morning for the rest of his life with. Ex-girlfriends are a difficult issue. If the guy was the one who broke up, then remember that he probably knows that she's emotionally sore. Maybe he doesnt want to hurt her feelings again and the best way to do that at times is just by plain avoidance. As for whether you should be angry. I contacted my ex and i told my wife. She was surprisingly cool even though others told her that she was stupid for letting me do so without bringing the house down. That made me more conscious of my relationship with my wife and the trust that she had in me. I would never break that trust. It is too important. But I do recommend that you speak to him about it in a casual-by-the-way manner. Dont be offensive and dont make him feel like you are pushing him agasint the wall. He will tell you whatever it is, after all you are his wife, the single most important girl in his life. Good luck!
2007-03-21 03:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by onallthetime 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What cha wanna do is throw him into a tizzy by ignoring that he married you, and focus on this past tense, ignore that he didn't give her the number, ignore that the bro in law did a very hostile act, and be sure to not scold him for it. That your hubby had his space invaded an maybe got caught flat footed, was one thing, what would you have done if the woman had asked for money for an abortion. Why don't you call her up and tell her yourself. I be married to the guy, don't call back. Make a believer out of her, you ain't gonna *iss on her if she was on fire. Bye.
2007-03-21 03:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well seems your husband was forewarned and knew it was coming so maybe to prevent any more contact he did what he did to avoid her calling back also your brother-in-law probably told her he was married....but if that number keeps popping up on the cell bill or his phone I definitely would question him why?
2007-03-21 05:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Renee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your hubby was afraid of how you would feel if he talked to an ex g/f. For that situation NO i wouldnt be mad. In fact I would incourage him to call her. What I have found by talking to my own ex's in the past was somewhat disapointing. Usually the fantacey of the old days was there till I talk to them. then I found out that there lives changed just as derastically as my own had. Usually after all the usual catching up ( are u married, how many kids, jobs, ect..) There were lots of awkward silences.
2007-03-21 03:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by angel s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say on this one. One, your husband may have been surprised by the call, second she probably knows he's married now and wanting to cause some trouble by calling.
Next time she calls, you take care of it once and for all!
2007-03-21 03:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that's really weird. Either he truly doesn't want to talk to her, which is kinda weird that he's not telling her that he's married. Why dd your brother-in-law give her his number? I think it's weird after all these years she's bothering to get back in touch.
2007-03-21 03:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Buffy C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, the call came as a surprise and it 'shocked' him. I know it would me. And yes, like him, I would've also said "Wrong number" and hung up. But sometime, somewhere, I would've told you.
2007-03-21 05:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋