*He loves public displays of affection which bugs me to death.Why can't he just act like every guy around his gf in public?
*He keeps calling me at work just to say "hi" and "I love you".What kind of loser does that when he's going to see me in less than 6 hours?
*He keeps making big deals out of anniversaries while I don't so I always end up having to feel bad about forgetting to get him something while he goes all out.
*He's so attentive it's drives me mad especially when I'm in a bad mood and he wants me to talk about it.
*He gets me tickets to concerts and suprises me with presents occasionally without permission.If I want something,I'll ask for it.
I'm thinking of ending it.
2007-03-20 20:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a boyfriend most girls would kill for. I think you are 2 different kinds of people & you really don't care as much about him as he cares about you. I think he deserves someone who actually cares about him. You should tell him to read this question & all our answers so he will know he is not the problem, YOU ARE!
YOU SAID
(*He gets me tickets to concerts and suprises me with presents occasionally without permission.If I want something,I'll ask for it.)
Permission?? You gave that when you decided to be his girlfriend, Hello! You have some serious control issues that you need to examine, seriously.
2007-03-20 20:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by fearson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do i feel sorry for you....
you have there a good boyfriend, one of the few actuall good guys left in the world...
all youve written shows us that he gives a damn about the relationship and actually cares for you...
just because you see a person in 6 hours doesnt mean you cant miss em...
if you do break up with him you will realize what a great guy you just lost.
as well maybe a relationship isnt what your looking for, but dont break up with the guy just because hes good to you...i know many many women who would love a guy like that...
but when it comes down to it all, maybe you just need to take some time and think about what YOU want
2007-03-20 20:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you realize how lucky you have it, are you asking for a boyfriend to treat you like garbage? Sure it sounds he's a little overboard, but almost every woman I know would kill for a man that shows he cares like that, guys seldom let their guard down enough to show a sappy side.
I'm thinking you're PMS tripping
2007-03-20 20:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by hiller128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of girls that would kill for a guy like this but if your not feeling it than your not feeling it. No matter the reason if your not happy with someone it's only fair to both of you that you end it.
2007-03-20 20:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good idea. If you are not feeling the way he does, then don't break his heart. Most women would kill for a guy like that!
2007-03-20 20:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol what is wrong with you girl? Damn, why can't he just forget to call you, never take you anywhere, never say I love you, never call, and drool over girls in front of you. Yeah what a "loser".
2007-03-20 20:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god, what a clown! ok so it's not bad that someone is crazy over you, just that he is over doing it big time.
If the things mentioned above bother you that bad end it, but try to talk to him about first.
2007-03-20 20:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. In five years you'll be able to look back and wonder where all the good guys are.
2007-03-20 20:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ATTENTION EVERYONE: PRIME EXAMPLE WHY NOT TO BE TOO NICE TO A GIRL. THEY ARE UNAPPRECIATIVE WHEN THEY GET A GOOD MAN. THEY JUST WANT TO BE TREATED BAD BY JERKS. YOU DONT DESERVE THIS GUY YOU UNGRATEFUL HO!
2007-03-20 20:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋