i asked a question asking y everytime i send a picture of my son 2 his father the prison send it back then a girl on here who goes by heather says my sons father is a bad influence because he is in prison when the reason he is in there is because i was 17 and he was 20 when our son was conceived even tho we were together since he was 16 but i would liked to know y he is a bad influence so heather if u read this please answer
2007-03-20 20:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hon, this is Martha. Do you really care what Heather thinks?
P.S. Is it polaroid? Prisons do not allow them.
2007-03-20 20:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that you've given this person an awful lot of power to cause you this kind of grief. All sorts of folks come in here for whatever reason, some are legitimate and some are simply to spout off. Regardless of what this girl says, what really matters is how you are taking care of yourself and your son while his father is away. Obviously, he is there because you were underage and somebody, like a parent?, decided that it wasn't ok for you to get pregnant at 17. Statutory rape?
Anyway, get on with the business of getting on...
2007-03-21 04:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes. Some mistakes are bad enough to go to prison for them. If he's in prison, he can't be influencing your son, so it shouldn't be much of an issue.
If she can't get over it and you're committed to your man, get over her.
I think you should have just emailed Heather herself rather than posting this for everyone to see.
2007-03-24 01:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Travis and Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't care what this person thinks! If you don't think that he is a bad influence then that is your call! not hers! Let it go! Don't let someone that you don't even know have that kind of control on your or your sons life!
2007-03-21 05:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by BRIDE*2*BE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even worried about this??? Its a waste of energy
2007-03-21 15:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋