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2007-03-20 20:31:37 · 21 answers · asked by super_high_sky c 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Caste community should not matter for marriage.

2007-03-20 20:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by ud 5 · 0 0

In India, 99+% marriages are performed within the same caste and community; inter-religious or inter-caste are 1-%. Almost all who counsel, teach, advocate and canvass for no discrimination basing upon caste or religion, act contrarily in own life. The caste (even sub caste), community & religion are very much important in marriages. All marriages are performed reciting holy sacred verses from ancient scripts. Intercaste or interreligious marriages are registered with the Marriage Registrars by spouses alone, while their relatives and friends dislike and condemn. Their hybrid children also have to marry the same way without the caste & community people, relatives and friends.
Hinduism is not a religion. It is a culture, custom, tradition, rite and ritual. It divided humanity in 4 categories (varnas) and thousands of castes therein; and others are Untouchables, worst and dirtiest than animals. A Hindu always belongs to his caste. Castes are quite unchangeable.

ALL THE INDIAN CENTRAL AND STATE GOVERNMENTS' RULES, LAWS, ACTS, notifications, orders, directions, clarifications, explanations and ALL THE SUPREME COURT'S & HIGH COURTS' JUDGEMENTS ::: ALWAYS CONFIRMED THAT HINDUS' CASTES CAN NEVER BE CHANGED.
If possible, one from higher caste would have changed to some lower caste to avail of the government aids, benefits, subsidies, free house & house sites, free lands, interest free loans, free education, free hostels and other facilities given to lower caste people by the Government..

2007-03-21 07:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not at all. Although culture matters a bit. Poeple from different culture take some time to mix in. Caste is a wrongly manipulated system of the society. It's important to look for a compatible and a responsible partner. Restricting your zones to particular castes and communities would not help.

All the best...

:-)

2007-03-22 02:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0 0

Of course. At least in India, it is required. While debating, people say that it is not required. But in reality, I strongly feel that caste community matters in marriage. Further, it will be better for the proposed newly wedding couple shall be from close family friends of the same community or from the close family circle. If their family customs, family traditions shall be known to newly wedding couple before their marriage so as to long last their married life.

2007-03-21 03:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by sadhu 2 · 0 0

Depends on your family background. But it's high time people get rid of these silly customs. It is causing too much disruption in soceity. Just because a person is not of the same caste or community doesn't make that person bad.

2007-03-21 06:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by AngelEyes 3 · 0 0

No not 4 d begening.V go against all d world .Fight 4 our love .but when it comes to post marriage,then v realise that v did wrong ,v feel v r two strangers. no i will say cast doent matter but yes religion matters.

2007-03-21 09:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by sherry 3 · 0 0

What!!!!! I donot mind caste, colour , cread or community. I consider the man, with a masculanity. Having powers and capacity to crush me 10 times a day, but for the days I have periods...Those days it pains me most.
Sandeepa

2007-03-21 04:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by sandeep k 1 · 0 0

it depends upon individuals. some people believe in cast, community and some don't. but hey you can search for your life partner from many cast, communities at shaadiya.com - 100% free matrimonial site with many features like email inbox, instant chatting, advanced search etc.

2007-03-21 14:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

NO!! Not at all. Only thing that you should not ask the benefit of caste for reservation. You should be either for or against it.
However as per any one, if you ask its all rubbish, its the only political class that has pigged out the skeleton and the nation would continue to repay for it.

2007-03-21 04:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Of course not, only a matured and broad mind is needed for a lasting marriage.

2007-03-21 03:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0 0

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