I am 44 and the guy is 33 is that way too much of a difference in age?
2007-03-20 20:33:22 · 22 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age IS only a number. Especially as you get older. It's different for someone that is like, 13 and dating a 23 year old. You know?
If you're happy then don't even worry about it! =)
2007-03-20 20:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so.... if you were 22 and he were 11 there is a problem but I think you should go for it. Dont tell people your ages (who dont already know) and I bet no one would think twice about the two of you. Havent you noticed men age alot more than women, you prob look the same age and here is the thing - men die earlier than women (statisitically) so you two could grow old and very happy together and neither one may be left lonely ! LOL Good luck to you, hope u accept this age difference is only numeric and move into love with your heart open. All the best for your happiness and that of your lover.
2007-03-20 20:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age gap relationships are great but you both have to be realistic and know exactly what you are going to do in times of difficulties.
I have been down that road i was married to someone 16 years older then me but made a lot of mistakes. i wish i had recieved some support from my family.
If i could i would do it all over again.
You should consider what you will do about having kids etc., and older women tend to want to take a lead in every decision which makes the man feel unimportant so be careful and develop healthy habits early on and be brave when friends or strangers make jokes.
All relationships undergo some tough times so when that comes to you dont think its because of age-gap.
And best of luck!!!
2007-03-20 20:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by anwar s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the difference is too much at all. If it feels right, then it may very well be!
Think of it this way: what if neither of you knew what the other person's age really was? Would you still want to pursue being together? If the answer is yes, then I would go by that.
2007-03-20 20:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by froggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now that isn't so much of a difference, you are both in your prime. But for you, you're probably in the last years of your prime while his are just starting and last longer.
In 10 years you'll be 54, getting old and thinking of retiring. (I know because my friends are that age) while he'll be 43--still at his peak. In 20 years you'll be 64 (old and with health problems) and he'll be 53 and still pretty healthy.
Of course individuals differ. If you are in very good condition you might be more of a match. Or if you just want a fling for a few years and don't expect it to last.
2007-03-20 20:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont imagine of so.... once you've been 22 and he were 11 there's a issue yet i imagine of you may settle on for it. Dont tell human beings your a at the same time as (who dont already be conscious of) and that i guess no you may imagine of two circumstances about both seen easily one of you. Havent you noticed men age alot more beneficial useful than women human beings, you prob look an same age and proper that's the ingredient - men die in the previous than women human beings (statisitically) so that you 2 might want to favor to strengthen previous and more beneficial useful than chuffed at the same time and neither you may be left lonely ! LOL sturdy fulfillment to you, favor u settle for this age distinction is slightly numeric and bypass into love along including your heart open. each of the major acceptable for your happiness and that of your lover.
2016-12-02 08:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by bennison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a number a man being 33 as i am i belive is more mature and is looking to settle and just not a booty call.
And you are very good looking just make sure you are happy cause thats all that matters.
2007-03-22 09:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by bhiggy0417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so because he is already mature. If he were 24, then that might be too young. I'ts only 11 years. I know a lot af people who are married that are 10 or more years apart in age.
2007-03-20 20:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is not too much of a difference, and like you said age means nothing if your happy with one another.
2007-03-20 20:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by ACID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both comfortable with it and you are ready to face the fact that other people might not be, then you don't have a problem. Do what your heart says is right, not what you heard someone else give their opinion on.
2007-03-20 20:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by nic_jr16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋