there is this boy that i met over the summer at a public pool and i really like him and i finally got his number from a friend and i called him but i dont know if her likes me back but in the summer he was asking my sister a bunch of questions about me but i dont know what to do because i want to ask him to the movies this weekend but i dont want to get rejected because my mom is joining the pool this summer and im sure his dad is too so there is no possible way that i could avoid him what should i do?
2007-03-20 20:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by monkey_lover808 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, why are you worried?
He asked your sister about you. That's a sure sign that he's at least interested! Just push those butterflies and fears away and go up to him. If he rejects you (which I'm sure he wont, because a boy wont ask about you if he doesn't like you) then hold your head up high and forget about him!
Call him :]
2007-03-20 20:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you what I would do..... I wouldnt ring him out of the blue, then he may be caught off guard and you are revealing yourself too much.... I would wait for the opportunity to talk in person, even if you have to wait until you see him at the pool...then have a friendly conversation about not much at all, then have the movie in mind (that you want to see) with a back up few (incase he doesnt like the type of movie) and just mention the film, if he says hed like to see it, say cool, we can go together etc.. it will be easy if you are already talking about it. Good luck and be brave, and the best thing about waiting until you see him is that he may even call you before this happens, then you know for sure he likes you. Best wishes to you.
2007-03-20 20:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take a deep breath and RELAX.
OK, after you settle down a little, go ahead and ask. First ask some of your other friends if they want to go to the movie this weekend. Then call him and tell him you and some friends are going to the movies this weekend and ask him if he wants to join you. If he says yes and you guys hit it off maybe you can ditch the friends after the movie. If he says no then you really didn't get rejected.
2007-03-20 20:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A movie does not a relationship make. It could, however, give you and him the opportunity to become better acquainted , since you will be alone rather than in a crowd. Just don't push it until you know how he feels.
If he says "No." act as if it really didn't matter, you were just trying to be nice.
2007-03-20 20:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They used to say that girls shouldn't call boys, but they didn't say why--so we thought it was an etiquette thing and left that custom by the wayside when we got equal rights.
The reason though, is that girls shouldn't call guys because it doesn't work. Guys like to be the ones to do the asking. If he talked to your sister he was looking for information--he knows where to find you if he wants you. Leave it at that. If you call him he'll feel pushed.
2007-03-20 20:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him bout his summer plans and mention your mother and family will be going to the pool this summer. ask him if her would like to go to the movies this weekend to see ____ (don't recommend ninja turtles) HEE! if he says no don't get upset just say, "ok i was hoping to find someone to go with me my friend ___ is busy and don't want to go alone. call me sometime if you would like to do something." that will leave the ball in his court. leave him alone and if he calls you great if not he didn't deserve you.
2007-03-20 20:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, he was asking your siste a lot of questions.
seems like he is curious to know you. Did u ask your sis what
she replied back to the questions.
Hey why jump over the wall...tell him you like to be your friend,
that way he wont refuse you. Get to know each other slowly then whatever happens will happen..
2007-03-20 20:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by reenalalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he probably likes you, he's probably trying to find out what you like so he can make the perfect move. Just invite him to a party or something casual and see if he likes you. It shouldn't be hard to pick.
2007-03-20 20:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him out with you and your friends to the movies, just build from that.
2007-03-20 20:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hy monkey gile go get it its now or never
2007-03-20 20:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by answer man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋