do guys ever get confused with their feelings for a girl and scared?
2007-03-20 23:24:47 · 16 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CAN U TELL ME WHY ?
2007-03-20 23:27:53 · update #1
Becuse the female species is very confusing indeed!
2007-03-21 05:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural, to feel like this. Guys do tend to hide the way they feel a lot, as any display of emotion is seen as week. Personally I am not a great beliver in this. But yes we do get scared and confused over how we feel. You never can know what some one else thinks and you do get scared to put your feelings on the line as none of us want to get hurt!
2007-03-21 06:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think they do. Most blokes are scared of commitment, they'd rather be out and about doing boys things. My other half had never really had a long term relationship before I snared him, he said he just "got bored" with the others! We've been together now 18 months and have just bought a house. A lad I used to "see" (his words, not mine!), didn't want to commit to an exclusive relationship because he was too much of a player - but when he realised I'd got over him he kept begging me for a second chance. General rule - treat them mean, keep them keen!
2007-03-21 06:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by gemma_florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that Men do get Confused & Scared. but I believe that they get this way for different reasons then a woman would. For men a woman in their life not only means feeling emotional but it also means Change.
women are more comfortable with changing our daily routines when we date someone. however men on the other hand are comfortable with life just the way that they have arranged it. Most men that I know are afraid of change more then they are of the relationship. I mean we all want to be loved, some people just want it on their own terms.
2007-03-21 06:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by imjae_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do, we just don't talk about and keep it all bottled up inside.
I get scared because if the strong feelings I have for my girlfriend and that for some reason she might not feel the same, or that I might do something stupid or insensitive so she leaves me!
I get confused because off the way she makes me feel and I do not understand it, she says I am amazing and gorgeous but do not see it myself!
2007-03-21 06:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think they do, they mostly know if the girl is right for a serious relationship or just for fun. being scared is perfectly natural, and i think everybody gets scared sometimes, even the most confident persons do. a really mature person always knows what he or she feels, confusion lasts for a short time, eventually the true feelings come out.
2007-03-21 06:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men do - especially when marriage is on the cards - we're way behind you lot on the maturity stakes and if you're having man trouble I would suggest your find one that is older than yourself not your own age and certainly not younger. Oh! dear, that makes me a bit of hypocrite saying that, because my wife's younger than me - but we've been married for over 10 years now, so I hope that excuses me from my being a hypocrite!
2007-03-21 06:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya guys r often confused about their feelings regarding gals ( thought not as much as gals r confused regarding guys)..
and guys r always wondering what the gal might be thinking about them, actually they care a lot about their impression on the gal...
2007-03-21 06:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by mew3_mx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all the time...
thats a human thing, not just guy or girl thing.
2007-03-21 06:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by liketokissthegirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.......Ummm Why do gals flirt with guys then relieze they don't like them, i don't know why maybe it's cause gals got us all screwed up
2007-03-21 06:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋