i met this guy in a bar last fri and we got talking,he was stunningly attractive and i felt flattered he was pursuing me,he dropped me home in a cab and we had a little kiss,i met him the next day for a drink and tak,and he started going on about how he'd never met anyone like me and he was ready to settle down with someone like me and get married,i found this really full on and laughed it off,he carried on throughout the night making these comments,and tellin people i was his girlfriend..after 1 day!! i do like him and we have a great laugh and get on and it doesnt help the fact that hes totallly gorgeous,he just seems a bit nuts to me and very full on,ive explained i want to get to know him before i even decide if i want a relationship or not and he said he's fine with that but he still continuing to be on my case constantly,calling me etc..what should i do????
2007-03-20 23:33:22 · 13 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I suppose its a step up from a train station LOL.
Go get em tiger, don't let anyone hold you back or put you off.
Love is insane.
Follow your heart. Believe in Love. An look after yourself.
Tears come soon enough and when you least expect it but don't let fear stop you falling in love an dont stop love from stopping your fear.
2007-03-21 13:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Whatever. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to meet some of his friends thus getting a better idea of what he's actually about. If his friends are a bit weird then run. They might be able to shed some light, like he got dumped recently by a girlfriend of 5 years etc
2007-03-21 06:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gemma T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a very scary man. if on the first date a man was claiming that I was his girlfriend I would have been offended. it sounds like he uses pressure tactics to get his way. but what will happen when that don't work?? I say be careful he might not be the great guy that he seems to be. Looks are not everything. what looks good on the outside might not be so great on the inside.
Good Luck and follow your inner voice.
2007-03-21 06:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by imjae_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him now. From my experience men like this turn out to be control freaks. He sees you now as this wonderful thing but when he gets to know you and sees your faults (dont mean that in a nasty way - no-one perfect) you wont be living up to his dream and then things will start to go wrong and he'll try to change you.
2007-03-21 06:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sugarlump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to slow down. Although he is gorgeous probably
being 'full on' is one of his faults. It might have been a
problem that other girls have had with him.
It is early days so one of you has got to have a level head.
It would be a shame for something to be ruined before it
has had chance to get started.
(A lot of girls are envying you now!!)
2007-03-21 06:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a wide birth chick he sounds like a possessive man and they are not good partners,wanting to no your every move who your with etc.think about it after only one day of knowing each other he's telling every one your his girlfriend.but if you think he wont be like this follow your heart chick.xx
2007-03-21 07:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by deliciousde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHAME i always find there is sumfink majorly wrong with boys i meet, & as much as i dont want to sometimes i have to let them go. you must do the same, but keep his number incase you get desperate 1 day
2007-03-21 13:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what hes after, wonder what he will be like after.
Careful Girl theres a web there dont cet stuck
2007-03-21 06:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is always a flaw isnt there too good to be true yep what are your instincts telling you? i think you know the answer to this get rid befor he becomes a stalker
2007-03-21 06:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the most of it, once you get to know him you will probably go off him
2007-03-21 06:38:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋