He seems to want to Hang out more then to spend quality time with her. He is the one who watches her in the mornings as I go to work and he sleeps more then he plays with her.
I have told him before that we need quality time together as a family if we want to continue to be seeing each other like this. it Hurts me because he is the only Man that my daughter has ever known, she even calls him "daddy" (that was her choice I never taught her that). we have been together like this for about 10 months (dating longer then that). what should I do? should I try to work things out or will he always be this SELFISH?
2007-03-20 23:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by imjae_02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A leopard doesn't change his spots. My opinion is, he will always be this way. He sounds lazy and unemotional. Does he work? You never mentioned if he does. My advice is, move on. He just doesn't have what it takes for quality. How well do you no this character. When you have small children, you must only have people with high standards. He has none!!!...
2007-03-20 23:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For him to already accept you with a little one, that says a lot in itself. All I've ever done, since I was a senior in high school was be a dad to kids that weren't my own. I always did what he is doing and not forcing myself on them is extremely important. He is just assessing the situation right now and yes, he will need to be more involved with the family as a whole. Please feel free to send me an e-mail with some more questions: unknownsoldier1st@yahoo.com
2007-03-21 06:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by unknownsoldier1st 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is not your childs father then how can you say he is being selfish he must not be to beings he excepted you with a child and some men are not into watching little kids and maybe he is scared that she will get a little confused if the father does step in hang in there time will tell good luck
2007-03-21 06:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are instances where step fathers have done bad to us. You should take precautions. Ask the person , that you are yourself ready for anything he wants. But donot look at my daughter. Take care. Otherwise he break the diaphagram, its repairs are also available. But lost virginity is bad.
anita.
2007-03-21 06:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by anita d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't exactly call this selfish.You have allowed to this to occur.You must ask in a demanding way that this change.ask him for his undevided attention away from your daughter.do not let her hear this.Explain to him thoroughly how things must change.work together on this.
YOU CAN DO IT!!!
Good Luck
2007-03-21 06:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him thatthis is a serious consideration, if he wants to continue to be with you. It is a package deal. If he doesn't see it your way, it is best to end it before your daughter gets more attached to him.
2007-03-21 06:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old he is, if he is not your daughters father he may feel uncomfortable being left with her because he doesn't know how to act
2007-03-21 06:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have thought this much earlier before starting living together
any way talk to him straight away and set the terms
2007-03-21 06:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is she, mom's usually know if there is something wrong in a relationship with their children, if you are concerned, they is probably a reason
2007-03-21 06:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by stephen b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that person is not good for your daughter, you should take care about her alone.
2007-03-21 06:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by Suchness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋