one of my guy friends like one of my girl friends since hte two of them hav bee good frens for long she feels awkward. he is really depressed and keeps asking me what to do i've tried PRACTICALY EVERTHING and he still feels bad. im the messenger but im really worried about him.
the qustion is: HOW DO YOU REBUILD UP A FRIENDSHIP? and lose awkwardness?
(and this is also the case with another of my guy friends he likes my best friend and he talksto me too.....ugh)
if u have had experience that would be great! thanks so much to all who give decet answers :)
2007-03-20 23:30:15 · 3 answers · asked by pitchaya. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ge tthem to talk to each other because its them who need to rebuild their friendship and only they know how not to make the situation awkward-you shouldnt be in the middle of it. you should give your girl friend advice that she should just tell him that she just wants to be friends and she doesnt want a relationship with him because she doesnt want to ruin their friendship. this should help your guy friend accept the situation and it should be a lo less awkward or awkward free. anyway hope this kinds helps. look at other peoples advice because mine may not be that good. GOOD LUCK ;)
2007-03-20 23:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i think that you being the messenger cuts off direct contact between them so you are in a way a wall for them. also i don't think that you should really do anything because things should happen at its own time. when you force something then it doesn't work out.she probably doesn't want to hurt him but he needs to get control of his feelings ... your world shouldn't end just because of another person.
2007-03-21 00:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ideal element to do (in case you sense this is precise of path) is the locate the main magnificent time to tell him you're sexual orientation in case you sense delicate with it. If not than do not subject, from what curiously such as you're pal merely made an harmless, white humorous tale approximately something extremely minor. there is like 0.5 of a million % hazard he'd even suspect something. yet certainly, as quickly as this is out interior the open that's going to be plenty much less awkward. merely tell him which you're gay, and that he's your pal and you do not think of of him as something distinctive. of path whenever you sense waiting if ever.as much as you. additionally just to throw in, teach him which you advise nicely and which you're real on your notice. in case you recognize any woman pals that could be attracted on your pal than attempt to hook them up and permit him understand you're assisting him out. something like that just to ease some conceivable rigidity.
2016-11-27 19:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋