ya... i do sometimes...
2007-03-20 23:19:13 · 39 answers · asked by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every day.
2007-03-27 00:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing to me how cavalier people who are in a relationship with "the one" can be about the ease and hope of finding a person to be with. I don't think many realize how tenuous their own relationship may be. I have met a lot of girls and "the one" is becoming less and less likely a reality. When you are in school and all is class, parties, and friends your idealism insists upon a beautiful "one". I've been out of grad school 4 years and "the one" has yet announce herself. It's not for a lack of interest either. I just think that many of us have been duped into thinking that there is a "one" because so many people who are in relationships condescendingly say "Oh, you'll find that special one someday." Two years later they are split up listening to the same garbage from a different friend who is with their "one". Some may say this is the rant of a cynical, jealous, and lonely man. Well...they would be right. Everyone wants "the one". Not everyone will get to have "the one".
2007-03-28 18:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by jack jagger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me share a story and a philosophy. I found "the one" about 8 years ago. I knew he was "the one" from the first time I laid eyes on him. He was glowing as if some divine light was leading me to him. And we loved each other so much. We dated for a short while, but we didn't end up together. Now he's married to someone else and has a family with her.
I truly believe that there is such a thing as 2 people being made for each other by Divine design, what some people might call soul mates. But the thing to remember is that people get so bogged down with living in today's modern society with it's modern pressures, and stereotypes that people forget to listen to their hearts and their souls. So it doesn't necessarily mean that soul mates end up together in this life, but maybe they will in the next. But don't lose hope.
2007-03-28 09:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by spicy_salsa69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you need to. I mean like when your 67 living with two cats and eat cabbage for breakfast, lunch and tea then sure worry why. But I don't see why you should go looking for something that might not even be there. I reckon you should go have a good perve on some hot guys and when Mr Right comes along you'll know. Remember that You don't go looking for love love come looking for you.
2007-03-28 21:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya, do you ever feel like you'll ever find more than one? Sometimes when you are the loneliest then you will feel like you are desperate. Don't worry there will always be someone for you.
Just be patient and realize that there may not always be 'the one' there may be the 'almost the one'
Stay positive, love will be there when you and that special someone are there.
Have fun and enjoy yourself. You will find 'the one'
2007-03-28 17:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Leafs Rule! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to. But the important thing is that you don't get impatient. Better off waiting and being happy for life, then to marry the wrong person and be miserable. After all, no where is it written that you have to be involved with someone by a certain age. Time will bring someone to you.
2007-03-28 22:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Most of the time. But somebody said you do not exactly "find" the one. "You're both part of each others' destiny." Maybe both of us should be waiting patiently. We'd better not feel anxious and desperate about it. There's "time for everything", as they say. If we hurry things, the tendency is we fail. Someday, if you'll finally meet your "the one", he'll be happy you've waited for him patiently.
2007-03-28 18:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by svit-kona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember those days... I used to have anxiety over it. Until I realized that I needed to like myself and not be afraid to be "single" without a boyfriend. Then as soon as I did, I started getting asked out. Why? because my attitude. No guy (in his right mind) wants to ask a girl out if she worries about finding the right guy. Just have fun - date for fun. sooner or later the right guy will appear! My husband did. Shortly after my attitude changed, my husband asked me out - then we got engaged the next year and married in 1983 ( a year after that). It's all in your "attitude".
2007-03-28 18:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by DotRMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, trying to find "the one" is a very exhausting ordeal. But,
you've got to keep keeping on, because "the one" is also out
there looking for you.
Don't make the mistake of searching for "Mr. Perfect" because he doesn't exist. Also, "Mr. Right" may not be your
match. Who you're looking for is "Mr. Right For Me!!"
I'm over 35, and my "right one" has yet to make a grand
entrance into my life!!
Stick with it, and "the one" for you will appear, OK??
2007-03-28 16:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not like tat but you'll have to wait for the one who has your attitude to be a partner
2007-03-28 22:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes but then again I become very unsure of meeting the one because I have been hurt so much in each of my relationships.
2007-03-28 21:09:05 · answer #11 · answered by diva22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋