ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. once my mate said oh she 4 got me and he was there and he was like oh my chere
2007-03-20 23:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah but no but...that is like well out of order or somming or nuffin
2007-03-20 23:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by kchick8080 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak up! It's always difficult getting tons of advice from every single person that knows the both of you! But you have to ask yourself, what do YOU want to do? You obviously like this boy, and are pretty confident that he likes you as well. Mostly behavior that comes from "friends" outside of you two is due towards jealousy, or the fact that maybe his friend likes you. Boys get shy around ladies they like... Don't avoid him at all! He's probably waiting for you to talk to him, because that will seal the deal in his head that you're interested. If you're too shy, then break the ice by asking him if he had plans for the weekend? Get him talking, and keep him talking! Little topics like sports always turn a guy on, and ignoring drama from the "others" will be your best bet! Good luck!
2007-03-20 23:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ally J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you and the boy are both to shy to talk to find anything out about each other, and his friend and your friend are having a lot of fun and making things worse!
If you and he can't even get up the nerve to talk, you don't need to be thinking about dating anybody just yet, neither of you is obviously ready!
2007-03-20 23:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl they are boys and thats what they do and your mates sound nuts anyway ignore them all and go to another club
2007-03-20 23:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...he probably fancies you....but maybe his friend said that because he is jealous..or maybe the one you fancie...is just telling his mate to say that...because he is embaressed about it...! :-) good luck!!!!
2007-03-20 23:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by x-Kelly-x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋