Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

My fiance and I have been together on and off for 5 yrs. now, share a house and a child together as well. ALthough he knew from the start that I used the drug meth on occasional use, he didn't know a thing about it (tell signs, effects etc.) and had never even tried it, he has always spoke very low of addicts. Any how we spent sometime (3yrs.) apart and during that time I became a heavy user and was addicted. Once we had gotten back together it was just after a long period after I had been sober. So when shortly after our reconciliation I had a relapse and didn't want to admit defeat and dissapoint him, so I chose not to. From there it just kept on happening although he has had suspicions everytime he would bring it up I would lie my *** off and him believe it. Now a year later my addiction is becoming unmanageable and I know I need professional treatment but I don't know how to break it to him & still have his support. Also I know he would try to take custody of son:( so any advice?

2007-03-20 23:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by foxydiva909 1 in Family

if a girl keep on stareing at u and when u stop stareing and stop looking you hear hes cute was then girl talking about u if u are the oldy boy there?

2007-03-20 23:04:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17 soon to be 18 and i believe ive found the right one for me. although some believe that im still TOO YOUNG! but i know we will make it as a happy couple. what do you think?

2007-03-20 23:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by clueless_07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When does the giant bell go off cosmically and we can admit our feelings?
I hear everyone say they think he is interested in me too, but we can't seem to make that leap toward love.
He did say something about if I wanted to be his girl, I'd beat up jealous girl. (my main competition) JOKE

2007-03-20 23:03:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where 2 start basically ive let the father of my kids in and out my life for 10 years hes had other realtionships and always cheated on the other girl with me hes been with a girl for 2 years and cheated on her 2 i met some one else it didnt last long just 1 of those things but i felt good but when that ended i went back round ex i know he wont ever be withme it wouldnt work i have now put a stop to him creepin back round me even though he still trys to find out if im alone and i let him think i had next man he didnt sound to happy but my problem is do my thoughts go back 2 him when im alone or is there more to it i was fine when i was with someone else not only that but after everything hes done 2 me and other exs why do i feel like hes better then me am i just lonely and need attention i know its all sad but it just niggles me

2007-03-20 23:02:12 · 3 answers · asked by brokeno1 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i get over my broken heart..i feel totally destroyed inside..am trying to get out and about a bit difficult as i have children at home..i have joined a dance class 1 evening a week but feel so lonely..any other advice you can give me as i don,t have many friends to talk too..

2007-03-20 23:02:03 · 15 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at chruch say i was cute to her firend one time and weeks after weeks we stare in are eyes for long and when its time to geel and shake everyone hands she comes near to me and then nextweek i was siting whit my firend and i look back and she was stareing at me i stare back then i hear a wisper like hes cute and my firend look at her way and then he stop and go sit near the girl and i look at the girl her touge was sicking out and smileing a little and wispering to my firend and keep on sstareing at me when i look at her and after chruch she walk slowi near me and stare at me a little does she like me me what does she want?

2007-03-20 23:01:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-20 23:01:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a long distance gf and used to help her financially though always when we spoke or met up it was always about money and she would just go on spending sprees i havnt helped her much at all the last 9 months cos of a change in circumstances now she dumping me for another guy should i try to get her back i am in love with her deeply and very angry at the mo 10 days ago she was pushing me for a 3K final deposit on the house which she planned to buy in her name i wouldthen move over and get on the deeds i couldnt make it now this happens help!!!

2007-03-20 22:59:56 · 30 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, I know it sounds like I'd be younger, since I'm asking how to talk to a guy... which normally i have NO problems doing, but with this guy I do...

I went to high school with him, he was never in any of my classes though, and hes really quiet... never a jock or anything like that, and Im pretty out going , so you think it'd be easy.. but its not.


He seems really cool though, and hes good looking ...... but yeah.... hes added on my myspace account , and i havent really been able to talk to him though, just asked a question abotu college class once... I dont know what to do or say to this kid because hes so silent in class and if Im too upfront I might look stupid...

I dont think he totally dislikes me cause I talk outloud and joke around with people and i see him smiling or what not... buuut how do I start talking to HIM ?

HElP
thanks

2007-03-20 22:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by kissablenquiet14 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 22:56:32 · 15 answers · asked by Chris08 2 in Singles & Dating

when i was in my school this guy approached me i wa 16 at that time and ah was 24 now i am 21 and he is 29.we love each other sincerely.i was in a city to pursue my studies some 9 yrs back.now i am in my native.wen i was in city i used to be with him and wil cal him atleast 20 times a day but now sinc i am wit my dad am not abl 2 cal him.so he got a kinda insecured feeling.so he used to scold me 4 not calling him.sometimes wen noone was tere at home he used to cal me 2 his place and wil ve sex with me.since he is financially weak i ve helped him by giving my stud and ring although he had not returned it.he also loves me a lot and he has even cried for me wen i tel him tat i ll go away from him. even i used to argue with him if he shouts at me.but if i argue with him he wil start talking me with bad words and also my parents.i believe him since he has been with me for 6 yrs.ours is an orthodox family.tey ll not accept our luv.he is tellin me if i don marry him he ll not marry anyone els

2007-03-20 22:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by anjana 1 in Singles & Dating

unemployed and living with extended family what are the steps that the child has to take to do this for state of indiana

2007-03-20 22:56:18 · 1 answers · asked by JENNIFER H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She liked me a lot about 2 months ago. We started hooking up about a month into her liking me. Everything was going great, then she got into a lot of trouble with her parents and school. Keep in mind were in college. I talked to her today asking if she was happy with everything. She told me she didn't know. She said she is on the fence and doesn't know what she wants yet. I told her I would give her space and that I liked her a lot and would like to continue the relationship. She said ok, and I kissed her about 12 times and she kissed me back then I left.


What do you think the outcome of this situation will be?

2007-03-20 22:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by Dave n 1 in Singles & Dating

Remember how was your first kiss?

Care to tell us your story?

2007-03-20 22:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by Adia Azrael 4 in Singles & Dating

From past evidence I have noticed that when you show Apathy (not showing much interest in the person) works or has made them want you back. I just wanted others opinions??

2007-03-20 22:54:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv'e been asked to be the best man at a mates weddingin 2008 any ideas or jokes for a speech.

2007-03-20 22:54:02 · 14 answers · asked by Trev23 3 in Weddings

2007-03-20 22:51:55 · 11 answers · asked by tupac4evaa 3 in Singles & Dating

What does romantic love feel like to you? Proper love and not just fancying someone. Does your brain just fizz?

2007-03-20 22:51:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone know of some good songs such as "the hardest thing to do" by 98-degrees ....where it is about a hard breakup?

2007-03-20 22:50:51 · 6 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 22:50:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 22:49:36 · 2 answers · asked by emily b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 22:49:28 · 11 answers · asked by manish sharma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we just decided last week that we are going to get married. i have told all my family and friends and am already looking at venues and dresses etc!! however he has only told his mum and his son, i asked him about this and he said that i was getting too overexcited and that men are different to women and that he will do it in his own time. is this true? all i can think of is the wedding and am so excited that i want to tell the world! he says that it will be properly official when we have the engagement rings(which we are flying to new york to get very soon) and that then we can have an engagement party and tell everybody. it has taken a while for him to come around to the idea of marriage as he had a bad experience before, should i just give him time to tell his friends and family or should i be worried that he is unsure of going thru with it? i luv him so much i want to shout it to the world that i am gonna finally be his wife!

2007-03-20 22:48:26 · 10 answers · asked by pom pom 1 in Weddings

My fiancee and I are forced to live with his mom because they own the house together and so no chance of us ever living apart from her. She has always been annoyingly controlling of me and ever since we had a baby last year it has gotten worse. I finally did have a talk with her that she needed to give me space to raise my son the way I wanted to, and she tried to back off but then she will just relapse back into her old ways. It is not just with my son but with my personal belongings and where I can keep them in the house all the way down to other things in my life. She has serious control issues and it's driving me nuts! I haven't talked to my fiancee about any of this and I know maybe I should because I think he feels similar that she tries to control him. Basically I need to hear from other moms who had to be forced to live with their M-i-L and how you may have handled it, even after you may have already talked to them about it. Thanks!

2007-03-20 22:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by abbeystar 2 in Family

met this guy around 9 months ago. We gelled and clicked right from the start we were like best friends as well as lovers while seeing each other. But i discovered over time that this guy was a classic commitment phobic. Even when he spoke about his ex's saying that they were all too needy etc but I actually think it was him with the problem, as he is very immature and erratic for his age 28!!. during the space of time we were together he wasn't sure if he wanted any proper commitments right now, so we decided to leave it at that & just be friends. I am movin on as we are on 2 different levels right? I don't ever call him! He still calls me after 2 months. He called me a few days ago telling me that he does miss me & my company,someone to liase & laugh with, but still isn't saying anything about a proper relationship! I'm sorry but he doesn't know what he wants right now with me & alot of other things in his life. This guy has hurt and led me on long enough. I need to look afta no1!

2007-03-20 22:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

jus asking

2007-03-20 22:43:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, here it goes, I hope this gets better responses than last time.

My Girlfriend of 8 years recently told me she used to do some nude modelling whilst we were at University. This came as a shock, and i have looked into it on the internet, and found some of her pictures, totally nude, legs open, fingers inside the lot!

She doesnt look like the sort of girl to do this (shes more cute than sexy), but she told me she enjoyed it, but wouldnt do it anymore.

She is not an exhibityionist at all with me, the complete opposite in fact, but i love her body, and would love to see more of the pictures she did, and would love her to do the same with me from time to time, but she refused. If it was me id prefer to do this in front of her than infront of a stranger.

Anyone know of any photographers in London particularly around barbican or old street?

Any girls or photographs involved in this type of work who can give let m eknow what goes on at these shoots?

any advice welcome

2007-03-20 22:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well.....all guyz love to flirt but why galz dont like fliirting??.well not all gals but why most of the galz dont like flirting??

2007-03-20 22:41:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i find myshelf very miserable here!the only good times i have is with my boyfriend!I think i am gonna loose my mind!

2007-03-20 22:41:02 · 3 answers · asked by charlotte 2 in Family