Well, I know it sounds like I'd be younger, since I'm asking how to talk to a guy... which normally i have NO problems doing, but with this guy I do...
I went to high school with him, he was never in any of my classes though, and hes really quiet... never a jock or anything like that, and Im pretty out going , so you think it'd be easy.. but its not.
He seems really cool though, and hes good looking ...... but yeah.... hes added on my myspace account , and i havent really been able to talk to him though, just asked a question abotu college class once... I dont know what to do or say to this kid because hes so silent in class and if Im too upfront I might look stupid...
I dont think he totally dislikes me cause I talk outloud and joke around with people and i see him smiling or what not... buuut how do I start talking to HIM ?
HElP
thanks
2007-03-20 22:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by kissablenquiet14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you see him next ask him how his day has been. Just seem like you are interested in a freindship with him. Don't be to forward.
2007-03-20 23:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many, this is a common problem that runs in many different age groups. First of all, your nervousness is stemming from the fact that you went to HS with him, so there is added pressure due to the fact that he already knows of you. You've already had one step accomplished for you, the fact that he is on your myspace account. Although myspace can be a silly distraction for many, it can also be a useful tool to get to know your peers and "potentials"! Myspace can be a great way to "break the ice" between you two... for example, writing comments and sending messages back and forth is not as difficult as speaking in person.
Not always recommended, but in your case, you should give it a try. Comments like "saw you in class today... great to see you're doing well! We should get together soon and catch up... I would love to get to know you again" or "hope to see you in class today, can't wait for all the excitement" or even "just letting all my friends know we're having a get together or going out on Friday... Let me know if you're interested" can be easy conversation starters.
Just be yourself! Showing him that you can laugh and have a good time makes him realize that you're a fun, easy-going girl and aren't afraid of a little teasing. And lastly, BE CONFIDENT!! Don't ever think you might look stupid... because if anything, you will have the knowledge that YOU went up to him and made the first move!! Good luck... hopefully this was a little help to you!!
-Ally
2007-03-20 23:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ally J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably feels the same way about you and is just really shy or nervous tell him that you are having some issues with the class and you were wondering if he might help you with then since you both went to the same school and all. something tells me that once you get him talking you may not be able to stop it. I was so nervous and scared of women in school that they pretty much Had to either tell me they liked me or just grab me. I found out later that a girl I was gaga over was waiting for me to ask her to the prom and I was completely clueless that she even knew i existed. Anyway if you like him just dive in.
2007-03-20 23:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy! Start talking to him on myspace. Comment a picture or something, then get a routine going and start commenting eachother once a day or so. Soon, you'll have something to talk to him about in person. Initiating conversation will be easy. Obviously, he listens to what you're saying and he smiles because he likes it. He's definitely in to you, I say.
2007-03-20 23:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon in the journey that your warm or not.What kinda woman sits next to ya.If its a cheerleader attempt to act and look jock.If its a punk woman.Take out your MP3 and struggling with paying interest to the instructor and extra to what your listening.If its a girly woman initiate writing a poem or something.reliable success! :)
2016-11-27 19:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him the same way you'd talk to a friend. Maybe he's shy and doesn't know how to respond.
2007-03-20 23:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can just try to be his friends... dun think that u like him... or overact... maybe he is too shy.. cause of u too pretty.. hehe
he some time... try to talk to him more... slowly slowly tell your feelling.. i dun think he will reject u... good luck ^^
2007-03-20 23:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by dasas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to borrow his eye shadow or lipstick or something. god damn!
2007-03-20 23:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋