when i was in my school this guy approached me i wa 16 at that time and ah was 24 now i am 21 and he is 29.we love each other sincerely.i was in a city to pursue my studies some 9 yrs back.now i am in my native.wen i was in city i used to be with him and wil cal him atleast 20 times a day but now sinc i am wit my dad am not abl 2 cal him.so he got a kinda insecured feeling.so he used to scold me 4 not calling him.sometimes wen noone was tere at home he used to cal me 2 his place and wil ve sex with me.since he is financially weak i ve helped him by giving my stud and ring although he had not returned it.he also loves me a lot and he has even cried for me wen i tel him tat i ll go away from him. even i used to argue with him if he shouts at me.but if i argue with him he wil start talking me with bad words and also my parents.i believe him since he has been with me for 6 yrs.ours is an orthodox family.tey ll not accept our luv.he is tellin me if i don marry him he ll not marry anyone els
2007-03-20 22:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by anjana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of understanding ur situation, he shouts at u for not calling, He even give bad words to u and ur parents also, how could u listen to it. He calls u for having sex, just for satisfying his physical thirst. He has taken ur stud and ring, which not yet returned.
Really love is blind. Till now u r not understanding him. He is using u - financially and also physically. If he really loved u, he would understand ur problems, never would take anything from u and would never called for a sex.
Think over this relationship. This will lead u to a very tuff life in future. U will not only spoil ur life but also ur parents will be ashamed of u when they come to know of this.
Before taking any step think over it.
2007-03-20 23:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're 21 you're supposed to be an adult.More mature.This guy is using you.Next time you meet him,tell him you want back the rig and stud.If he makes excuses Tell him that's it,you want what's yours.If he still refuses to produce them.Then he's probaby hawked them, or given them to someone else.Bite the bullet and find somebody who'll treat you with respect.Under no conditions have a sexual interlude with this guy.So he does'nt like it if you don't phone him.Does'nt his phone work
2007-03-21 00:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋