She liked me a lot about 2 months ago. We started hooking up about a month into her liking me. Everything was going great, then she got into a lot of trouble with her parents and school. Keep in mind were in college. I talked to her today asking if she was happy with everything. She told me she didn't know. She said she is on the fence and doesn't know what she wants yet. I told her I would give her space and that I liked her a lot and would like to continue the relationship. She said ok, and I kissed her about 12 times and she kissed me back then I left.
What do you think the outcome of this situation will be?
2007-03-20 22:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by Dave n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm ******* confused
2007-03-20 22:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really enough info to make a judgment ....
what do you want the outcome to be? if she is in trouble, dont you think that is a time when you need those who love you around you, fighting with you, giving you support.
in my opinion, if someone you love is going thru a tough period in their life, that is the time they need you the most. It is also most often when they push those who love tthem away. mostly from fear of letting the other see this weaker side of them. However, in reality, they really want you and need you to be there more than ever.
Did she really kiss you back...a kiss with meaning, passionate, i love you kiss or peck on the cheek thanks kiss.?
If you want this relationship to work, i dont think you have asked her the right questions. If she wants you and the relationship, my guess is she is wondering why you so willingly "gave her space".
2007-03-20 23:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by HopeURLuvinLife2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a good idea for you to give her some space since she's going through difficult times. You should also give her some support and be there for her in case she needs a shoulder to cry on. I think once she gets throught this she'll still want to be with you.
2007-03-20 23:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'm only 13, but hell, that sounds horrible, my advice is to think about the girl first. THINK: She may be happier without you, err, that's not what I meant, damnit!
Ok, you know, if you really loved her, you would ket her do what she wanted, and if that's to get away for w hile, then that just shows you really DO CARE ABOUT HER! YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?!
2007-03-20 23:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is unable to understand herself
if u r sure u know her very well & would be able to resolve her problms
then...............u r on a path
2007-03-20 23:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by sahi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋