What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)
2007-03-20 23:01:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's been 3 months ever since we broke up, i have not made any contact with him, I have boosted my self esteem and independence, i travelled arond europe I moved in with my best girlfriend, started a new job, and i started dating, i feel happy about myself, but i still love him, these feelings haven't changed, i still desire him
2007-03-20 23:01:33 · update #1
It is not a choice thing - you have to get over him. Start feeling better about yourself, get some interests other than romantic. Remember, in your next relationship, the same actions will produce the same results.
2007-03-20 23:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't your fault you got dumped. I think what you're doing now is a good start to having a better life. In time you will get over your feelings for him. If he treated you badly I don't know why you'd still love him, but don't go back, go forward instead
2007-03-21 06:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as the song goes god bless the broken road that lead you to where and who u r today..who knows it might lead u to the one who deserves u..good luck..
2007-03-21 06:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋